is he using me??? |
is he using me??? |
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![]() spooning leads to forking ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 528,839 ![]() |
ok. so i've met this guy. he's like 3 years older. he's sweet, and he knows how to make me fall over and over for him...but lately, i've been feeling very used. like whenever we talk its just about sex, or what ever we do, its related to sex. and when i try to change the subject he goes back to it. and i just want to talk to him like regularily. like just not that. i mean sometimes im in the mood but others times i feel like "is that all you think of me as?"
idk, im extremely confused, i want more from him but im too hesitant to say anything because its like long distance, and we met like about 3 months ago. is it too early to say anything? i feel like im wasting my time, and love on him.... ![]() |
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 ![]() |
well how old are you?? i remember hearing that a guy is at his sexual peak at 19...soooo...
it could be just his hormones raging, i mean he is a guy! plus you said that you saw him 3 months ago...thats a LONG ASS time for no sexual activity for a guy (hell for me too! lol), if you guys did anything. but hey it's totally natural for a guy to talk about sex a lot; me and my (now ex) boyfriend talked about it a lot because we were both naturally sexual people. if it makes you uncomfortable, let him know!! say that you like him a lot but you just want to talk about something other than sex all the time. or if he continues, you try changing the subject maybe. but be careful because there IS more to a relationship than just sex, and if it seems like that's all he wants, i would steer clear of him. he's a hound dog and he may try to compromise your feelings and your body for what he wants. |
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