is he using me??? |
is he using me??? |
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![]() spooning leads to forking ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 528,839 ![]() |
ok. so i've met this guy. he's like 3 years older. he's sweet, and he knows how to make me fall over and over for him...but lately, i've been feeling very used. like whenever we talk its just about sex, or what ever we do, its related to sex. and when i try to change the subject he goes back to it. and i just want to talk to him like regularily. like just not that. i mean sometimes im in the mood but others times i feel like "is that all you think of me as?"
idk, im extremely confused, i want more from him but im too hesitant to say anything because its like long distance, and we met like about 3 months ago. is it too early to say anything? i feel like im wasting my time, and love on him.... ![]() |
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c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 ![]() |
maybe you should actually tell him that you don't appreciate him talking to you like that. perhaps it's too soon to give up and what not. when Thuan and i first started talking he was just a typical guy when approaching me...you know? he was always talking like all he wanted to do was have sex with me, and i felt like he was using me and what not too, but it wasn't like that at all. lol. after a while we started dating and now here we are...lol i couldn't be happier :) lol. soo just talk to him about it and what not, and then see how things go from there. does that make any kind of sense at all? lol. ;)
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