asking my girlfriend... Options

[nycaf12]

this is definitely pg13.
hmmm ive been dating this girl for a while. we got really close and really close and finally went to 4th base. but then everytime we have it we skip the 3rd base(oral). how should i ask my girlfriend politely that i want 3rd base? i dont want to force her to, which is why i am here.

thanks..

[RyanWasHere]

I have a solution, that I can garuntee right now will work, or your wasted time reading this back.

Ok here we go, the next time you get intimate tell her that you always wanted to try going down on a girl, I'm betting on the fact that you haven't since she hasn't, anyway fast forward, go down on her, do your thing, have sex and what not, the next time you get intimate ask her if she will go down on you, just so you can experience something new, she will not say no, chances are she will go down on you after you finish being down there with her...but if not, wait till the next intimate time, and ask, flat out...don't be shy about stuff like that, if your to shy to ask your partner about something sexual, you probably shouldn't be having sex with them.

And I completely disagree about waiting till she's comfortable, sex is an exciting, scary, fun, amazing thing, but it is nerve racking to do something you've never done before, you just have to bite the bullet and get over your fear of trying new sexual techniques, and if you tell it to her like that, she will understand, and probably agree.

Good luck, but just remember, if you go down on her and you can't stand the taste or the texture or something and don't want to do it again, don't expect to get oral from her again, only take what your willing to give back to the relationship.