Need some help to settle down Options

[JonathanK]

K so if you guys/girls saw my last couple of posts awhile ago so many bad things have happened to me in the past week and a half. My girlfriend Broke up with me, she said she would still be my friend and talk to me. then a couple of days later my grandfather passed away. And then when i needed to talk to her the most she stopped talking to me and now ignored me somewhat. We talk sometimes but it's only for a short while now. I really wanna know whats going on in her head. I was thinking of like going in the same room as her and blocknig the door and say like * I wanna talk to you not this wall i have been talking to for the past 2 weeks*. Like i still have some feelings for her since she was my first girlfriend and i heard she still likes me too. Lately I've just been so pissed off. Like i feel like i'm losing control. When My cousin and I went boxing this guy was bugging us and if you have seen the movie fight club I basically pulled that. He punched me in the gut and I just basically kept asking for more like *No i didn't quite catch that man* then he hit me. Then I replied *still not getting it* he hit me again. lol then I was like * i got it, i got it, i got it.....shit I lost it* then when he tried to hit me again I tackled him and broke his nose. it's like i blacked out or something. I just get really frustrated with what has happened so far. So if any of you people have any words of advice or tips to help me get through this I would truly be greatful.

[*steve330*]

You should not try to force her to do anything. Don't trap her in a room and make demands. That will only end poorly. Get some time to your own and just think things through. Find out what went wrong, whose fault it was. As for the whole fight club thing, man I'd be pissed if I kept hitting a guy and he kept mocking me rofl.

But yeah, sounds like you have a lot of stress you need to relieve. Go running/work out til you're physically and mentally exhausted. Come home and sleep. When you wake up in the morning take a nice cold shower to get you alert and realize that it's a new day and that life will go on without her. That isn't to say that you just completely let her go. IF she said she still wants to be friends don't give up on her. Send her a text message, or better yet an e-mail. That gives her plenty of time to respond to it, and it's not an immediate thing she has to respond to. It gives her time, and you get your message to her.

If she's completely ignoring you then maybe you severely f**ked something up or she wants time to herself to think things through.

[EmoEyelinerx]

You should not try to force her to do anything. Don't trap her in a room and make demands. That will only end poorly. Get some time to your own and just think things through. Find out what went wrong, whose fault it was. As for the whole fight club thing, man I'd be pissed if I kept hitting a guy and he kept mocking me rofl.

But yeah, sounds like you have a lot of stress you need to relieve. Go running/work out til you're physically and mentally exhausted. Come home and sleep. When you wake up in the morning take a nice cold shower to get you alert and realize that it's a new day and that life will go on without her. That isn't to say that you just completely let her go. IF she said she still wants to be friends don't give up on her. Send her a text message, or better yet an e-mail. That gives her plenty of time to respond to it, and it's not an immediate thing she has to respond to. It gives her time, and you get your message to her.

If she's completely ignoring you then maybe you severely f**ked something up or she wants time to herself to think things through.

Well said.