should i give up?, long distant relationship |
 May 25 2007, 12:59 PM
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so me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, almost 7
he moved to san diego last saturday and since he has left he has only called me once it seems like we dont talk as much as we used to i thought that long distance relationships were supposed to be all about communication and such so when i tell him we dont talk as much, he says we do, because we still text but i dont think that texting and talking on the phone is the same when i get sad about him being gone and not talking to me, he gets mad. i dont know if i should try and work this out and maybe tell him that he needs to put an effort out to call me and such, or just give up and there is no reason why he should have troubles calling me, but he does any advise on how to keep this relationship going? or should i just call it quits? |
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May 25 2007, 03:02 PM
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yeah...welli am not optimistic at all, so i always think of the bad things that might happen
maybe if i tryed to be more optimistic it would help, i dont know... does anyone know some tips to make long distant relationships work?? |
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May 25 2007, 05:41 PM
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QUOTE(ashleybby @ May 25 2007, 09:02 PM)  yeah...welli am not optimistic at all, so i always think of the bad things that might happen maybe if i tryed to be more optimistic it would help, i dont know... does anyone know some tips to make long distant relationships work?? It seems like you do want it to work. 1) Don't give up. The moment you do, it's more or less over. 2) Give him some time settle in (1-2weeks) But I don't see how this is effecting him calling you. 3)trust. Soo important. 4) Stay positive. You keep being sad and down, it will rub off on him and you both will be miserable. 5) Honesty. Seriously long distant relationships are the same as any other type of relationship. As long as your committed then it will be more than fine. Keep addressing your concerns to him. He's your boyfriend, he should listen and understand. |
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ashleybby should i give up? May 25 2007, 12:59 PM
kryogenix Throw some Ds on that bitch. May 25 2007, 01:03 PM
manaway QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 25 2007, 10:03 AM) ... May 25 2007, 06:49 PM RyanWasHere In my opinion even having to ask if you should cal... May 25 2007, 01:05 PM ashleybby yeahhh...i guess so...
but he doesnt seem like he ... May 25 2007, 07:09 PM Rachelislove ^Ya, that would probably help a bit dear. Communic... May 25 2007, 07:54 PM ashleybby yeah, he finally called me, and i told him how i f... May 26 2007, 02:15 AM Rachelislove ^Well good. It's important that you live your ... May 26 2007, 02:47 AM ashleybby ^he moved up there to get a job that his uncle has... May 26 2007, 03:09 PM |
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