should i give up?, long distant relationship |
should i give up?, long distant relationship |
May 25 2007, 12:59 PM
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so me and my bf have been going out for 6 months, almost 7
he moved to san diego last saturday and since he has left he has only called me once it seems like we dont talk as much as we used to i thought that long distance relationships were supposed to be all about communication and such so when i tell him we dont talk as much, he says we do, because we still text but i dont think that texting and talking on the phone is the same when i get sad about him being gone and not talking to me, he gets mad. i dont know if i should try and work this out and maybe tell him that he needs to put an effort out to call me and such, or just give up and there is no reason why he should have troubles calling me, but he does any advise on how to keep this relationship going? or should i just call it quits? |
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May 25 2007, 01:05 PM
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![]() RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
In my opinion even having to ask if you should call it quits is a sure fire foreshadowing of a relationship destined to fail.
I don't think you should call it quits yet, he just made a move, which is a big event in someone's life, give him time to get settled he's stressed out with a lot right now, give him space, let him breathe, go visit him within the next 2 weeks, maybe stay the night and spend a weekend together, it will mean a lot to him, and will help him be more at ease knowing someone familiar to him still wants to make an effort to come and see him even though he lives farther away now. Good luck, |
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ashleybby should i give up? May 25 2007, 12:59 PM
kryogenix Throw some Ds on that bitch. May 25 2007, 01:03 PM
manaway QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 25 2007, 10:03 AM) ... May 25 2007, 06:49 PM
ashleybby yeah...welli am not optimistic at all, so i always... May 25 2007, 03:02 PM
Mystic Eyes QUOTE(ashleybby @ May 25 2007, 09:02 PM) ... May 25 2007, 05:41 PM
ashleybby yeahhh...i guess so...
but he doesnt seem like he ... May 25 2007, 07:09 PM
Rachelislove ^Ya, that would probably help a bit dear. Communic... May 25 2007, 07:54 PM
ashleybby yeah, he finally called me, and i told him how i f... May 26 2007, 02:15 AM
Rachelislove ^Well good. It's important that you live your ... May 26 2007, 02:47 AM
ashleybby ^he moved up there to get a job that his uncle has... May 26 2007, 03:09 PM![]() ![]() |