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Asking out a, shy guy friend
bambamboozle
post May 19 2007, 09:54 PM
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So I have a friend who's really shy, and I like him.
I just went with him to a dance and had lots of fun (but I played off asking him by saying just as friends)
And my friends (who are also friends with him) think that he likes me too, so I'm gonna tell him.

The only problem is, we're both always so quiet and awkward with eachother and if he doesn't like me, I don't want it to ruin our friendship...plus it seems hard to get in a situation where I could actually tell him.
Oh, and he's a senior so I'm only guaranteed to see him this week and then one week in the summer when we have this event. Otherwise I'd have to flat out ask to meet up with him.
Any help with how I can tell him or play it off if it's obviously weird?
 
 
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loveylovely
post May 19 2007, 09:59 PM
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I have this very same situation, except this guy's not shy or anything.. rolleyes.gif but I just so go with the flow. Get him to have a conversation with you and ask him what he likes to do. Then just casually say something like, "Well maybe we could hang out sometime during the summer doing that.." Just whatever comes naturally. He'll probably say yes. _smile.gif

Since he's really shy, you'll have to lead the convo most likely.
 
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post May 19 2007, 10:07 PM
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QUOTE(loveylovely @ May 19 2007, 5:59 PM) *
I have this very same situation, except this guy's not shy or anything.. rolleyes.gif but I just so go with the flow. Get him to have a conversation with you and ask him what he likes to do. Then just casually say something like, "Well maybe we could hang out sometime during the summer doing that.." Just whatever comes naturally. He'll probably say yes. _smile.gif

Since he's really shy, you'll have to lead the convo most likely.



yeahh , i agree, ask him if he wants to meet up during summer, tell him your going to miss him, and just keep up the conversation, if you dont want say it right out just try and get closer to him with things like going out places, and spending as much time with him .
 

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