That's beef on my block!, confrontation 64. |
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 May 18 2007, 11:25 PM
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When it comes to hearing rumors or having a friend or people you know backstab you, are you the kind to confront them about it or just let it be? Are you the "rather have the original source" or the "I don't need them in my life" type?
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May 19 2007, 11:33 AM
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At first I would try to ignore their bad behavior, figuring it's not worth it to have a fight. But if it got really bad, I'd want to know why. It would depend but I'd most likely give them a second chance and put them "on friendship probation." If they did it again, I'd basically stop talking to them as much but not officially cut off all ties.
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JoanOfArc That's beef on my block! May 18 2007, 11:25 PM
steve330 I like to be sneaky about it. I find things about... May 18 2007, 11:34 PM
marzipan QUOTE(steve330 @ May 18 2007, 11:34 PM) T... May 20 2007, 07:09 PM StanleyThePanda I'd have to basically go with Steves answer. I... May 18 2007, 11:48 PM stephinika It depends what it is about I guess. I've done... May 19 2007, 12:20 AM &/degradanca. I normally just cut them out of my life, really.
A... May 19 2007, 07:03 AM Jeng I'd ask around my group of friends, then I... May 19 2007, 09:41 AM MidNightMystic Both.
Depends on who it is and what they said. May 19 2007, 10:43 AM freeflow I just let it go. It only happened a few times and... May 19 2007, 02:17 PM Hakuna Matata QUOTE(freeflow @ May 19 2007, 12:17 PM) I... May 19 2007, 09:05 PM z3nn1 Yeah, agree with Toya^^
I have done both, but it ... May 19 2007, 02:45 PM Jinny I confront them. May 19 2007, 04:04 PM Mystic Eyes It depends on the persons involved and the overall... May 19 2007, 04:39 PM minioligo I blow them off. If they had any real problem with... May 19 2007, 09:10 PM cup noodles i usually keep it inside. then i can use it to bla... May 19 2007, 09:34 PM UniversalRoyalty I usually just let it go.
I tried leaving two of ... May 20 2007, 01:09 PM Stefanny nothing's over until i say it is.
least, that... May 20 2007, 01:24 PM guava_garden i would drop hints at first. then after a few days... May 20 2007, 05:50 PM karmakiller I am NOT a confrontational person, and it's ha... May 20 2007, 06:51 PM Autobahn I'm not the person to get all uptight about it... May 20 2007, 07:06 PM o0h misz depends on who. and my mood
sometimes ill confront... May 20 2007, 08:25 PM steve330 Ah yeah, mood plays a big part. If I've had a... May 20 2007, 11:23 PM |
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