please answer my question.... ='(, what would this be considered.. stalking? Options

[greenday123]

well i am a really big loser and i don't know anything. but like there is this guy and he wouldn't leave me alone for like ever, and he knows who i like and always makes me do things with him just to give me info about him. but like i really don't care but one day it got too far i guess

so m here is that what im saying, he kinda pressured me to go into the bathrooms and i didnt want to, but i did anyways i guess. then like i guess he kinda pressured me to go into the stall and tried to make me give him a hand job but i didnt want to and he kinda forced me to. like we were in there a long time, but i barely even did anything to him

then he wont stop texting me asking if i'm home or like anything. and keeps on saying that I TOLD him to buy condoms WHICH I NEVER DID. and that we're gonna use them, and i dont want to like i'm scared of him, but i shouldn't because it makes him seem to like it even more, like especially how i keep saying no. it freakin turns him on even more which is so stupid and gross..

so is this rape or stalking or harrasement or what? i know, i'm stupid but please answer my question...

[ame;]

yeah, i wouldnt say this is rape, unless he threatened to caus harm to you if you did not do it, which doesnt sound like he did? it sounds like you did it because you wanted infomation on this guy
Maybe harrasment? that i think is true.
stalking? i would say most likley not. if he keeps messaging you and asking you where you are and such i wouldnt say that wouldnt be enough, or serious for the police to consider, i say you just tell somebody about this, anybody, and stop doing it, unless he threatens you in anyway, say no.

And you say its embarassing? If you DONT tell anybody, and people find out you are saying yes to him, for such a small reason as you want to hear about this guy you like, that would be alot more embarassing , something much worse could happen if you dont stop it now.