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My "bestfriend"
EmoEyelinerx
post May 18 2007, 04:44 PM
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Hi, Im Brook.
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Ok I have this really good friend (lets just call her kim) kim. Everytime I like/date someone she ALWAYS dislikes and makes fun of him. Today I told her that I really liked my ex again and she started making fun of him saying "eww his hairs greasy", "ew he smells" or "hes so stuck up." And hes not stuck up, have greasy hair, or bo. She doesent even talk to him, and because hes one of the "popular guys" at our school she automatically thinks hes stuck up. Hes really sweet, funny and the least bit stuck up. Remember she does this with EVERY boy I date or like. After school she started texting me saying he smelled and stuff. I told her off. A hour or so later she was asking:

Kim: Are you mad at me?
Me: What do you think?
Kim: Ya?
Me:Bingo
Kim:Omg Brook! Why are you getting mad at me!
Me: You are always saying shit about the guys I like and im SICK OF IT!
Kim: -brings out the whole if -you-were-my-frined-you-wouldent-be-mad-at-me role-
Me: -didnt respond-
Kim: So were not frineds anymore?
Me: uhh
Kim: well how long will it take you to get over it?
Me: Idk. so are we still frineds?
Kim: idc

And im not sure weather or not I should like be her frined or what because im getting pretty tired of all the drama and idk what to do. Any advice?
 
 
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Rachel
post May 18 2007, 09:10 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale.
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Wow, you sound like you are in middle school. Usually boys are not worth losing a friend over, especially if she's supposed to be your best friend. I say take a look at these guys and see if there really are flaws to them. She may be jealous, or just watching out for. A lot of the time we block out what we don't want to see in people and it takes an outsider to let us know when we are wrong.

That being said, if there really is nothing wrong with the guys you like, I am sure there is an underlying cause for this. Ask whats really bothering her, maybe she is afraid of losing you?
 

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