guys i need advice ?? ASAP ??PLZZ, confused ! |
guys i need advice ?? ASAP ??PLZZ, confused ! |
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hey guys ...
im very new to this site but found very interesting & helpful, as i can see from the posts. i want to discuss my personal stuffs to you guys.Im in love with a senior gurl in China.Im student & studying medicine.This is my last year but the thing is i cannot concentrate my mind, im very confused & hurt too. We are seeying eachother for 2 years and we both love eachother so much. Recently, she told her mom abt us but i know they won't agree about us , and they are arranging her engagement soon. Im junior than her so she is scared to tell her parents about me. She told me she loves me a lot and she will love me forever but she cannot do anything which will hurt her parents. They means everything to her. Im so much hurt & even i wan't i can't focus my mind on my studies just because of her. I love her so much & she does too but what should i do when she cannot do anything for me ??? guys i need you help .....i hope it's clear !! if it's long than u might get bored ![]() thanks !! |
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![]() The kooks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 ![]() |
Hey MOZZA. I'm going to totally disagree with everyone else. Why? because it's not about what parents say. I'm sure deep down she would go against them but there's too much to lose.
If you truly love someone then you will stand by them. Thats true love. Anyways it seems like your girlfriend isn't happy about this engagement. So she should tell her parents about this and perhaps tell her parents about you. Hopefully if there understanding and genuine then they will be cool with you. Arranged marriages never truly work. And it's in those cases when you should go against parents when there not listening to their childs words. So, stay positive and keep trying. I hope things work out for you and her. |
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