do you think i was wrong????, im confused. Options

[ashleybby]

i live in vegas
and i have been going out with my bf for 6 months
and i really really love him.

but he is tired of vegas
and about to graduate
and his aunt in san deigo offered him a job
it pays alright

so the bf was thinking about taking it
when he told me though
i freaked out
and cried alot about it.
i couldnt help it
all i thought about was how long it would be before he came back to vegas

and we kinda fought over the situation
and i think he could find a better paying job here.

so then he told me that the reason he was gonna take it was for me,
because he wants to earn money for us, so we could live together once we graduate
so he said it was up to me....
and i told him i didnt want him to go, so he isnt

is that wrong of me to do? because i feel like in a way that i am holding him back from a good opportunity
but i dont want to be without him....
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idk, i am confused.

[shortnsweet88]

Umm, your relationship is not doomed, first of all. Second of all, yes..and no. He was the final decision maker so it all comes down to what he decided was best for him. As long as you didnt treat him horribly or guilt him into staying...I think what you did was perfectly normal and a natural response.