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 May 12 2007, 03:27 PM
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 long time no CB.  Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502  |
Feel free to move this. After I made this topic, I realized that it might fit in Relationships instead..?
Okay. Well my friend's in 9th grade and she weighs 80 pounds. That's REALLY skinny for a freshman. Everyday at lunch, she goes like "Ohhh! I wish I was skinnier! I'm so fat!" and it's NOT true. She's one of the skinniest people in our grade. Yesterday, she told me that she was looking at the models in a magazine. She told me "OMG! Their legs are so skinny! I actually measured their legs against mine and I'm so fat compared to theirs! I should go on a diet!" Umm, no. Whenever she looks at a model she compares her weight to theirs. Sometimes she says, "I should go on a diet. I eat like a pig." Which is NOT true. There's this really skinny girl in my grade, and my friend stares at her and constantly tells me that the girl's so skinny, she's jealous of her, she wants to be like that, blah blah blah. I'm getting sick of it. I keep telling her that she should GAIN some weight instead of losing it, but she refuses to listen to me. What can I do to make her realize that she's NOT FAT? Oh, and if I tell her something about "how bad it is to be too skinny", she'd act like whateve I said wasn't true/wouldn't care. |
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May 13 2007, 02:22 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
I'm actually like (or was like) her myself. I was like that in the 9th grade too. I still am when it comes to comparing , but I'm not as bad as your friend. To tell you the truth its a habit. Once you start comparing yourself sometimes it becomes just a common thing. Just because she only eats half doesn't mean she has an eating disorder. Its possible, but trust me sometimes you just can't eat a lot. Personally, I would highly suggest just supporting her for what she feels. I know its annoying when people (I myself included) goes "OMG i'm so fat" or "I'm so fat compared to them" or "GEEZ , I need to loose weight", but really just let her be herself. If she starts taking things the wrong way and you can feel she has some sort of disorder then I suggest you do something about it. If she starts loosing a lot of weight do something about it or talk to her parents or something.
But really a lot of girls go throught it. Its kind of a common thing. |
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Jinny my friend May 12 2007, 03:27 PM
deplorable i have a friend like that too. she doesnt eat.
i ... May 12 2007, 03:39 PM ola says hola sounds like she's anorexic. that's a whole... May 12 2007, 03:46 PM .misoshiru yeah, she's probably anorexic. but how much d... May 12 2007, 04:42 PM Wo0yaPo0ya How tall is she? May 12 2007, 04:49 PM
Jinny QUOTE(Wo0yaPo0ya @ May 12 2007, 5:49 PM) ... May 13 2007, 01:10 PM kimmytree Yeah, she sounds anorexic. Do you know her parents... May 12 2007, 05:24 PM &/degradanca. It already sounds like she has the whole anorexia ... May 13 2007, 02:24 AM cup noodles anorexia, perhaps? May 13 2007, 12:51 PM .misoshiru Well, as long as she's eating, there's not... May 13 2007, 04:06 PM pullthecord_x i agree with anyone who said it was anorexia. mayb... May 13 2007, 08:07 PM black_heart smack that beotch and tell her to eat something sk... May 13 2007, 10:42 PM cupcakex I hate girls like that. I'm pretty sure, that ... May 14 2007, 01:20 AM Puppy Chan I'm sorry, I don't really get the American... May 14 2007, 07:03 AM .misoshiru QUOTE(Puppy Chan @ May 14 2007, 8:03 PM) ... May 14 2007, 09:10 AM Puppy Chan QUOTE(.misoshiru @ May 14 2007, 2:10 PM) ... May 14 2007, 09:22 AM Jinny QUOTE(Puppy Chan @ May 14 2007, 10:22 AM)... May 15 2007, 06:46 PM deus_ex_machina Hmm... I think you should talk to her parents abou... May 15 2007, 04:42 AM Hamnah Yup.
I have several friends exactly like her.
But ... May 15 2007, 02:30 PM o0h misz It might be her just wanting attention.
Maybe.
Te... May 15 2007, 04:51 PM mishyerr Anorexia is a mental disease; she probably cannot ... May 15 2007, 06:09 PM XxBrookxX Like someone said before: It might be her just wan... May 16 2007, 04:13 PM Smilessss haha that reminds me of myself when i was a freshm... May 18 2007, 04:46 PM |
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