Huge Long Distace Relationship Problem Options

[HennaGaijin]

Thanks for your help!

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Awe, well I've been in my long distance relationship for a year and half now. I love every minute of it but he lives a few states up though not across the united states. Their hard though.

Problems come and go and from the sounds of it you don't exactly have a lot trust in him it seems. Also I don't think its completely your fault, I think you do have a reason to be a little insecure since he hasn't been talking to you like he use to. Have you told him this? Try calling him up and telling him how you feel and tell him that you guys haven't really talked in a while like a really personal conversation. I know my boyfriend never really acts different in front of his friends and even lets me talk to them and usually they want to talk to me from time to time and usually when I say something along the lines of we haven't talked in a while he's usually right on top of it and changing his plans around or making time for us to talk.

Have you guys ever really had other problems beside these two?

I remember for a few months with in the first year me and Josh (boyfriend) went through this long period that was filled with arguments and long fights. It seems once you get out of it though you really don't fight anymore and any other fight after it you already know its going to end and nothing is going to go wrong.

But the best piece of advice that I can possibly give you is to just call him up and talk to him about how you feel and tell him that you feel like you guys haven't been able to talk lately. And tell him about how your insecure and how your feeling about him talking to all these other girls. If he truly loves and cares about you he'll take the time to listen and reassure you that everything is fine and theres nothing to worry about. Also you may want to work on your trust issues with him but I'm sure once you can talk to him and stuff and if everything goes smoothly you'll build up that trust again.


good luck