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BF's ego bruised after we wrestled, Why can't guys deal w/losing to a girl?
judojen
post May 11 2007, 04:39 AM
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Please help!

I have a problem w/my BF's ego. A few weeks ago I finished taking beginner level judo classes and earned my yellow belt. I really enjoyed the classes and found i was pretty good at it, even tho' i'm not really muscular (i'm tall, 5'9", but slender, and weigh about 125lbs)...plus i'm a pretty girly-looking girl..i wear my hair long and like dresses, etc., and am considered a "looker."

Anyway, b/c of all this,my BF didn't take my classes very seriously and when I told him i got my yellow belt he just laughed. A lot. And when he was done laughing, well, I was kinda mad and so I challenged him to a wrestling match.

He's about my height but has at least 40lbs on me, and he didn't want to do it at first but after I said 'your just afraid of losing to a girl' he was like, "OK, let me teach you a lesson'.

So we got going and he didn't try very hard at first but when i tripped him w/a leg sweep and he went down, he got miffed and started to really try hard to beat me. Well, long story short, I kept using throws to send him to the floor til he got really tired, and then eventually, I pinned him!

So i had a little laugh at his expense and said "I hope you learned YOUR lesson", but since then he hasn't let it go, and kept after me for a rematch, saying "I got lucky", etc...last week I finally said "OK" to one more match b/c he wouldnt stop asking, and, well, I beat him again.

Now he's totally bent out of shape and keeps trying for another match to prove he can beat me and I need help b/c I'm sick of his pissy attitude!

Was I wrong to defeat him? Should I just fake it and let him win? I keep telling him it's just b/c I know judo and he doesn't but he's still mad!!!
 
 
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Mystic Eyes
post May 11 2007, 05:36 AM
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That's pretty silly of him. I don't care if I lost to you since you know Judo and I don't therefore you have an advantage on me. If he knew Judo as well then i'm sure the match would of been more even. It's just a guy thing really. Men can't stand to lose to women because of the whole men are stronger jazz.

So tell him to be a real man and get over it and be proud that his gal is able to look after herself.
 

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judojen   BF's ego bruised after we wrestled   May 11 2007, 04:39 AM
Monochrome.   You just tell him to get the f**k over it like a r...   May 11 2007, 05:26 AM
Mystic Eyes   That's pretty silly of him. I don't care i...   May 11 2007, 05:36 AM
Puppy Chan   I think your boyfriend is just a wuss *teehee*. I...   May 11 2007, 05:44 AM
&/degradanca.   Haha, I'm pretty sure my boyfriend would flip ...   May 11 2007, 05:53 AM
Wo0yaPo0ya   Males have been thought to be stronger than female...   May 11 2007, 07:53 AM
judojen   I have told him I don't appreciate him saying ...   May 11 2007, 08:43 AM
Monochrome.   Ive wrestled my boyfriend all the bloody time.I ki...   May 11 2007, 03:49 PM
XxBrookxX   Hes probably just embarassed..i mean how many guys...   May 11 2007, 06:26 PM
Intercourse.   Wow sounds like he really is bent out of shape abo...   May 11 2007, 06:42 PM
judojen   I really have tried talking to him about it but he...   May 12 2007, 12:28 PM
My Cinderella.   It sounds like he's just a sore loser. I don...   May 12 2007, 10:31 PM
Frénésie   Haha, that's hilarious. Let him beat you. Seri...   May 14 2007, 04:18 AM
judojen   I guess I should just agree to another match and p...   May 16 2007, 04:17 AM
steve330   You could also tell him what you're doing and ...   May 16 2007, 12:19 PM
Frénésie   Look, sometimes we have to let them win. That...   May 17 2007, 06:34 AM
steve330   QUOTE(Frénésie @ May 17 2007, 6:34 AM) Yo...   May 17 2007, 09:10 AM


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