To Stay or To Leave? Options

[zoelow]

There might be tons of topic related to this already, but yeah. =/

I'm really confused by this relationship that i'm having here. It nearly 1 1/2 year already. Often, he gets angry & hits me. Even though he said sorry everytime he does that, i'm certain he'll do it again the next time i make him mad since it have been going on for such a long time already {1/2 year after we got together} However, it just seem so hard to let go after we have been through so much. He's really hard to please, to a certain extend, fault-finder. I have no idea why he's unhappy with whatever i do, yet expect me to be pleased by whatever he did. Sometime when i try to defend myself with words when we quarrels, and kept quiet as already irritated cause he simply wont listen , he labelled that as 'attitude giving'. & when he does the same, he expect that i dont complain & comply to everything he say. I can't go out with girlfriends without informing him first, & he'll be upset that i didn't tell him if he found out. I had to go home immediately after school {unless i'm waiting for him} . He'll get angry if he know i went somewhere else before going home. & the worst thing is, he's doing exactly he dont allow me to do , like going out without informing & everything, & he thinks there's nothing wrong with that. I find that it's getting harder & harder to communicate nowadays, & everytime i tried to discuss a problem about us to him, all i got was ''dont think so much, okay?'' He rather talks to his friend about his problem, than me.

I really have no idea why i'm holding on, but i just dont seem to be able to let go. Help me people! ):

[HennaGaijin]

That sucks.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Please save yourself and leave him.

The moment a guy hits you, just leave him. It will only get worse or simply continue to happen. I can understand how much you care for him, but no one deserves that. I couldn't imagine how hurt you must be after he does that, so why stay and put yourself through it again and again?

Fighting is such a pain, and it can make a relationship seem hopeless. Every couple goes through it, but if there are even deeper issues behind little arguements and you can't solve them, then you need to move on. It sounds like he doesn't even want to help the relationship.

It's sweet to think I guy cares so much that he gets protective, but there is a line you can cross to where it's just annoying. I think you already know. That just adds to the list of reasons to dump him.

Only you can make this decision, but I would have to dump him. Even if you would be ripping your own heart out... there are probably so many guys out there that are better for you. I know it's easier said than done, but once it's done and time passes, you'll think it was the best decision you've ever made.

well said. i agree completely