To Stay or To Leave? Options

[zoelow]

There might be tons of topic related to this already, but yeah. =/

I'm really confused by this relationship that i'm having here. It nearly 1 1/2 year already. Often, he gets angry & hits me. Even though he said sorry everytime he does that, i'm certain he'll do it again the next time i make him mad since it have been going on for such a long time already {1/2 year after we got together} However, it just seem so hard to let go after we have been through so much. He's really hard to please, to a certain extend, fault-finder. I have no idea why he's unhappy with whatever i do, yet expect me to be pleased by whatever he did. Sometime when i try to defend myself with words when we quarrels, and kept quiet as already irritated cause he simply wont listen , he labelled that as 'attitude giving'. & when he does the same, he expect that i dont complain & comply to everything he say. I can't go out with girlfriends without informing him first, & he'll be upset that i didn't tell him if he found out. I had to go home immediately after school {unless i'm waiting for him} . He'll get angry if he know i went somewhere else before going home. & the worst thing is, he's doing exactly he dont allow me to do , like going out without informing & everything, & he thinks there's nothing wrong with that. I find that it's getting harder & harder to communicate nowadays, & everytime i tried to discuss a problem about us to him, all i got was ''dont think so much, okay?'' He rather talks to his friend about his problem, than me.

I really have no idea why i'm holding on, but i just dont seem to be able to let go. Help me people! ):

[Mystic Eyes]

I understand that you want to work things out but think about it from this angle. He is setting double standards. Example being he can do what he pleases, go out, etc but you have to inform him or where your going, who your with, etc. That's bullshit.

Also hitting a lady is a big NO NO. Why don't you test this out. Tell him not to hit you and to trust you since it seems like he as big issues in that department. Like trusting you to go with friends and stuff, if he doesn't come around then seriously leave that dork where he is. No one deserves to go through that.