what should i do here?, mixed feelings.. help |
 Jun 10 2004, 09:52 AM
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 SoMehOw iT sEeMs CoLdeR nOw..  Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,718  |
ok.. my boifriend.. Cody.. we've been goin out for 2 months.. so its nothin "serious" but its more than just a casual 2 week thing.. right. n we've dated before. i keep having all these mixed feelings about him.. one minute i'll be completely wrapped up in him.. n the next i'll be wanting to get outta the relationship so fast its crazy. not only that.. but this other guy, Tyler. he's more of a makeout buddy than anything else.. so i wanna be single so i can be with him again..
 but heres the hard part- Codys messed up. i always get involved with the crazy guys idk why.. Cody's bi.polar & tends to stay pretty depressed.. especially when he doesnt take his medicine. he has a really messed up family & all kinds of problems.. he feels comfortable with me cuz im the only stability in his life right now.. and i love to help people.. so i love when i can make him feel better ya kno.. i'm even in good with his mom. i talk to her all the time online ((she has msn)) she's more like a friend to me than a mom.. she's really kool.. easy to talk to. but she's always tellin me bout how bad codys life is n its kinda awkward.. n it makes me feel so bad cuz here cody is w. all these problems.. then here i am wanting to break up with him. the main reason i'm afraid to break up with him is cuz he always talks about how if it wasnt for me he'd run away or kill himself or somethin like that. he already "cuts".. he's tried to kill himself before.. n he was in the hostpital for a week or 2 in december cuz he ODed.. idk what i wanna do? |
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Jun 11 2004, 04:23 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Stay with him. Give it time. You can't blame him cuz he is mentally unhealthy. Just try and do wutever you can to help him.
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southern4life what should i do here? Jun 10 2004, 09:52 AM
islandkiss you definately have to talk to him. Jun 10 2004, 10:47 AM conster i think u should break it off before he falls deep... Jun 10 2004, 12:04 PM NvieDi3ai3yGrL you honestly have to do what's best for you ..... Jun 11 2004, 09:14 AM swtpumkinpie QUOTE(conster @ Jun 10 2004, 1:04 PM)i think ... Jun 11 2004, 09:49 AM 177emories you should think this over yourself.. its an impor... Jun 11 2004, 03:30 PM southern4life QUOTE(illuminessence @ Jun 11 2004, 3:23 PM)S... Jun 11 2004, 06:36 PM simplysweet259 just think about what you want. you guys can still... Jun 12 2004, 01:31 PM
angel-roh wow... he wanted to kill himself? wow thats one bi... Jun 12 2004, 07:33 PM |
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