getting over it Options

[fcukxl0ve]

sooo theres probably another topic like this already...but still..

me and my ex broke up recently (in the past month). we were rocky since march. we were going on our 10th month. i can`t get over him. i seriously can`t. there was just someting about him; that i`m not willing to let go of. and theres absolutely no chance of us ever getting back. yes i know...10 months..thats nothing. but i seriously do think i fell in love. everything about him both good and bad; i miss. i`ve never trusted any guy like i trusted him. i`ve never let anyone get that close to me. he was my bestfriend. my everything. he knew/knows me better than any of my girl best friends. i`m not willing to start all that over with another person.

i need help...shud i try to talk to him? or just let it go....?

[NgocQuyen]

how do you know there's really no chance of getting back together with him? if you really know there's no chance of getting back together, then the best thing for you to do is take that reality. i mean, you can try to fill your day up with activities or hobbies or something to get your mind off of things, or if you still want to remain friends with him then there's nothing wrong with doing that either. sometimes that can backfire on you though and not really help you move on at all because he's constantly there and you know there's nothing that will ever happen. does that make sense? it's just whatever you decide to do i think. i would just move on and try other activities and when the time is right i would look for other guys. he's not the only one out there. =] although right now it may feel like he is the only one out there he's really not. you make him bigger than he really is. does that make sense? ehh that's just me. :) good luck with whatever you decide to do though.