Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex? |
 Mar 10 2007, 09:24 AM
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I've only done it like 5 or 6 times, and we used condoms, and he says he truly loves me, although I don't believe him because he's 15 and yes I'll admit it we don't know what true love is...but is this wrong?
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Mar 10 2007, 06:30 PM
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It's an opinion question.
I'm into abstinence, so I say it's wrong. A lot of change can happen between age fourteen and post-college, especially in your priorities. I'm fifteen and happily taken with my boyfriend who's a year older, but I've chosen not to have sex with him because I can't handle the possible consequences alone. Who knows, maybe he'll be one of the guys who actually do follow through with whatever happens, but I'm not taking that chance. In high school, admittedly, he's one of my priorities, along with God and grades and perhaps a billion other things. I depend on him for a lot, but when we go to college, what we depend on changes. He's not going to have his dad there for him, and when I go to college I won't have my parents to pay for the possible consequences of premarital sex. You could get an STD or pregnant or if you two break up, you'll lose your reputation as well. I don't want to possibly screw over my life before I can support myself. Just my compressed take on premarital sex in general. I don't see why you're having sex with this guy if you don't think he loves you and if you don't know what love is. |
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May 2 2007, 09:48 PM
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 rorhinna Group: Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,214 |
QUOTE(suddenly she @ Mar 10 2007, 4:30 PM)  It's an opinion question. I'm into abstinence, so I say it's wrong. A lot of change can happen between age fourteen and post-college, especially in your priorities. I'm fifteen and happily taken with my boyfriend who's a year older, but I've chosen not to have sex with him because I can't handle the possible consequences alone. Who knows, maybe he'll be one of the guys who actually do follow through with whatever happens, but I'm not taking that chance. In high school, admittedly, he's one of my priorities, along with God and grades and perhaps a billion other things. I depend on him for a lot, but when we go to college, what we depend on changes. He's not going to have his dad there for him, and when I go to college I won't have my parents to pay for the possible consequences of premarital sex. You could get an STD or pregnant or if you two break up, you'll lose your reputation as well. I don't want to possibly screw over my life before I can support myself. Just my compressed take on premarital sex in general. I don't see why you're having sex with this guy if you don't think he loves you and if you don't know what love is. I agree with what is said above. seriously, 14?!! I don't know where you are with your relationship with him or anything, but based on your post, it sounds like you're unsure. you have to ask yourself these questions, and if you can live with all that, well, its your life, not mine: why would you be unsure if its ok? why are you unsure if you don't think its wrong? what will people think of you if they knew (maybe they already do)? what kind of an impression will/do you have on other guys? what about your parents? etc... |
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rubu1214 Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex? Mar 10 2007, 09:24 AM
Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! I don't think it is. Some people wait till the... Mar 10 2007, 11:31 AM ksoyeah 14 is a horrible age to have sex. Wait until you... Mar 10 2007, 11:33 AM
ermfermoo QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 11:33 AM) 14... Mar 10 2007, 12:21 PM
Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Mar 10 2007, 12:21 PM) ... Mar 11 2007, 07:41 PM marzipan QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 10:33 AM) 14... Mar 10 2007, 08:28 PM o0h misz QUOTE(ksoyeah @ Mar 10 2007, 12:33 PM) 14... May 12 2007, 11:58 AM ursedonah QUOTE(o0h misz @ May 12 2007, 12:58 PM) a... May 12 2007, 01:34 PM Jinny QUOTE(o0h misz @ May 12 2007, 12:58 PM) S... May 12 2007, 01:36 PM ursedonah QUOTE(Jinny @ May 12 2007, 2:36 PM) It mi... May 12 2007, 01:48 PM Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! Don't listen to her. If you think your in love... Mar 10 2007, 11:37 AM kayceeisms QUOTE(Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! @ Mar 10 200... Mar 10 2007, 03:55 PM ksoyeah Okay.
Go get pregnant when a condom breaks, sweeti... Mar 10 2007, 11:45 AM Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! I doubt that the comdom will break. so don't s... Mar 10 2007, 11:48 AM Mireh QUOTE(Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! @ Mar 10 200... Mar 12 2007, 02:49 PM niciDOOM the first time i had sex was 4teen
and its prefect... Mar 10 2007, 12:08 PM xcaitlinx i think it's wrong in your case because you sa... Mar 10 2007, 12:12 PM doork I think its stupid, but who am I to tell you that.... Apr 8 2007, 08:38 PM Statistik QUOTE(doork @ Apr 8 2007, 9:38 PM) I thin... Apr 9 2007, 09:10 PM Shortnsweet88 QUOTE(Statistik @ Apr 9 2007, 9:10 PM) wo... Apr 9 2007, 10:15 PM ashopely hm, personally i don't think it's a good i... Mar 10 2007, 12:16 PM Wo0yaPo0ya It's not wrong to have sex when you're 14.... Mar 10 2007, 12:27 PM pullthecord_x in my view, i always thought that people around 13... Mar 10 2007, 12:56 PM ldyxluvable wow.. i think thats TOO young Mar 10 2007, 02:40 PM SimplicityGirl As long as both of you are mature enough to handle... Mar 10 2007, 02:42 PM RAWRstephishere Get birth control too.
Make sure he doesnt have a... Mar 10 2007, 03:30 PM catastrophic Although ages give the first impression, I'm n... Mar 10 2007, 06:14 PM Shortnsweet88 I think its wrong. You asked for our personally op... Mar 10 2007, 06:35 PM lol lollipops Honestly, I do think it's wrong for a 14 year ... Mar 10 2007, 08:19 PM viola_winnie you don't know what true love is,you even don... Mar 10 2007, 08:53 PM &/degradanca. i think it's wrong, because i believe you shou... Mar 10 2007, 09:00 PM xosugarkissesox I'm not going to tell you if its right or wron... Mar 11 2007, 10:26 AM cup noodles it's not exactly wrong, but the concepts and m... Mar 11 2007, 10:50 AM xoxo_koala_kisses_ I don't think it's wrong, I just think it... Mar 11 2007, 11:08 AM Intercourse. It truly depends on the person, but from your post... Mar 11 2007, 11:12 AM pinacoolada Just be careful. Mar 11 2007, 02:29 PM Ma Ass is WOW no Mar 11 2007, 03:31 PM Endless_Symphony ^wow. that was the MOST informative post ever.
to... Mar 11 2007, 04:12 PM Ma Ass is WOW QUOTE(Endless_Symphony @ Mar 11 2007, 1:1... Mar 12 2007, 01:07 AM bitesnkisses Everyone has different opinions on this... and the... Mar 11 2007, 04:17 PM Emokrazy well i'm 14 and i have a boyfriend....i would ... Mar 11 2007, 05:30 PM My Cinderella. There is no wrong age to have sex. You just need t... Mar 11 2007, 08:18 PM Endless_Symphony there is. personally, i think 8 is a little young ... Mar 11 2007, 08:45 PM aznxdreamer why are you having sex with him when you know he d... Mar 11 2007, 09:20 PM Smoogrish Why are you having sex with him if you don't e... Mar 11 2007, 09:47 PM GhEtTo_DuChEsS Yess! but who am i to judge?? age wise, you gu... Mar 12 2007, 02:45 PM mishyerr Let's see what you think when a baby pops out ... Mar 12 2007, 03:03 PM little meg sunshine I don't think it's WRONG to have sex that ... Mar 13 2007, 09:56 AM Shelley_Mackenzie14 Acually, condoms break all the time. and lots of p... Apr 8 2007, 02:32 AM &/degradanca. QUOTE(Shelley_Mackenzie14 @ Apr 8 2007, 3... Apr 8 2007, 04:43 AM electric shock no, it isn't wrong. i just hope you're rea... Apr 8 2007, 05:31 AM GhEtTo_DuChEsS 14 is young, but then ppo has done it younger.
if ... Apr 8 2007, 06:54 PM Brittany Rachelle if you`re thinking about the
consequences, and... Apr 8 2007, 06:57 PM Shelley_Mackenzie14 okay condoms don't break "all the time... Apr 8 2007, 08:15 PM XxBrookxX I myself am 14 and thinking about having sex so th... Apr 9 2007, 12:00 AM krn_kiddo254 I was raised from the Holy Bible and I think it... Apr 9 2007, 06:54 PM Angelina Taylor It's not wrong, it's just incredibly stupi... Apr 9 2007, 09:23 PM Statistik ^Actually, it's BOTH wrong and stupid. just th... Apr 9 2007, 09:36 PM Brilliance QUOTE(Statistik @ Apr 9 2007, 8:36 PM) ^A... Apr 9 2007, 11:56 PM literemix24 I don't think its wrong, as long as you're... Apr 9 2007, 10:05 PM mouse_3k i think anyone younger than 16 who had sex is wron... Apr 10 2007, 07:16 AM lalalaLANUH I'm 14 (how many damn posts have started this ... Apr 10 2007, 10:22 AM Mr. Slowjamz i say having sex should be when your really mature... Apr 10 2007, 09:51 PM smileyworld010 condoms can break and not prevent stds.
and you... Apr 11 2007, 08:08 PM c0cONuTTeR You know, age sometimes has nothing to do with it.... Apr 19 2007, 04:39 PM AliceBadeau Honestly I wouldn't do it.
I've 17 and I ... Apr 21 2007, 03:16 AM cheri_pi If you trust him enough that if you DID have a chi... Apr 21 2007, 02:15 PM MizzBrii [font=Courier New]Umm I'mm quite young soo thi... Apr 21 2007, 05:31 PM Just_Dream Just because he says "I Love You" doesn... Apr 21 2007, 08:34 PM keep.breathin nope i dont see anything wrong with it
i don't... Apr 22 2007, 01:41 AM B00Kii3 im the same age and the same thing wit me 2 were r... May 1 2007, 02:56 PM mocassinsx29 love blah blah blah
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as long as you know w... May 1 2007, 07:01 PM ashy_dawn Personally i thin it is too young but to each is o... May 1 2007, 08:53 PM kayali7 Woahh, its not even legal here till 16.
But like.... May 2 2007, 12:03 AM ola says hola it's your choice what you want to do; noone el... May 2 2007, 01:17 AM KissMe2408 Hm, think of it this way. . .4 years ago you were ... May 2 2007, 02:26 AM Mystic Eyes Do what you want. Think about it this way, it mean... May 2 2007, 06:28 PM capricorn826 QUOTEhe truly loves me
Well, for me no. For you i... May 2 2007, 06:35 PM Jinny I personally think it's too young. Nobody... May 2 2007, 07:03 PM stephinika Well you seem to know the risks and are using prot... May 2 2007, 08:31 PM Imlearning Well, I mean I'm fourteen too, & I would n... May 10 2007, 12:13 PM `chinitalish0us i don`t think its wrong;; do you really love h... May 10 2007, 12:28 PM kimmytree Ummmm, yeah.
If you arent willing to face what c... May 10 2007, 04:32 PM captjack yea i dun think they should if they dun want to... May 10 2007, 05:45 PM *.brokendoll.* I am 14 and just had it for the first time. Its be... May 10 2007, 07:34 PM ursedonah sex is never wrong if both parties consent, they... May 11 2007, 09:13 PM KyleSchmidsGirl I think it is wrong for teenagers ages 13-17 to ha... May 14 2007, 04:27 PM deplorable i think it is wrong to have sex at 14.... im for s... May 14 2007, 05:19 PM Julia Guila er...yeah.
sorry, I'm for no sex until marr... May 14 2007, 05:36 PM KyleSchmidsGirl you're young sex can wait! it's not al... May 15 2007, 10:24 AM Hamnah Don't.
All these kids are growing up too fast.... May 15 2007, 03:51 PM o0h misz I still don't think it's a big deal.
But I... May 15 2007, 04:47 PM pinayprincess ahh.. 14? and 15..... just watch out... boys at th... May 15 2007, 05:16 PM ji_cabinx i think it's way too early May 15 2007, 11:11 PM black_heart yes it is slut,i wasnt talking to you tho May 16 2007, 01:50 AM just another teenage dirtbag It depends on if your religious or not i am so im ... May 16 2007, 10:10 AM |
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