my gf is wild Options

[jayjota3133]

Thanks alot guys, now it turns out she went to a party on wed. before she went in, i called, we talked about her "grinding" her ass on other guys while dancing(u know like hip-hop music), because we discussed a few days ago, that I am NOT comfortable with that shit at all. n she said she wont, that she just wants to dance spanish music and wont "grind" on anyone, now that I call, I ask, so your not gonna grind on any guys. and she says, is there a problem if I do. we talked and she had all intentions to, she said she wasnt going to though, now a few days later, she tells me she actually did "grind" on some guy. how am I supposed to trust someone like that? I love this girl, but cant stand the lies and deceits, and dont know if we can make it. she says I can trust her, and to put trust in her to test her out, but theres no point, I keep doing it, and she keeps failing. miserably, every time. Should I just end this and spare all emotions feelings and everything from going even further? Or try and find a way to stay together and edure this heartache and find a way to build trust together. She wants to be young wild and independent, I want to build a life together. I am turning 22 next month, shes 20 y.o. freshmen in college. She's def. a keeper, not like any i've found, thats for sure.

[me1issaaaa]

You sound just like my boyfriend, it's scary.

Okay. The girl is gonna do what she wants to do. Why didn't you go with her to the party? If you weren't there, especially if she wanted you to go, you don't have a right to tell her what she can and can't do. This is nothing - it's JUST DANCING.

I'm sorry, I've just been going through something really similar to this with my own boy, and I'm sick of the subject. I apologize if I sound rude at all, it just really hits close to home with me and my own problem.