frikken ROAR, guys are ddongz Options

[xjjajeengx]

ACKKKK so much to explain...

i like this guy... erm... but like, i dont want to be in a relationship since last time, i proved to myself that relationships are a pain in the @$$... anyways. he tells me that he likes me, and i can tell he is sincere about it, and it sometimes makes me really happy, that is, until his little problem peeps out.

See, he has this problem of flirting insanely nonchalantly. I mean, he'll touch one of my ex-best friends on the arms, do all this sh!t with her over the fone, etc. Heck, he even flirts with one of my good friends right now, and it disgusts me to know that she touches him all over during like 5th period...

He tho, somehow takes my jealousy as me hating him. I mean, arent i entitled to be angry? Like in NY, he had my ex best friend and one of his old crushes in his room for like 2 hours everyday. and i swear, they're just watching TV together, yet they have so much "fun" and its sick because i mean, he... "rubs" down my ex best friend. I mean, he doesnt even know that it gets me pissed off either.

What is more ironic is the fact that he gets all pissed if i even TALK to a guy, let alone TOUCH one. i mean, like today, he was all pissed cause i was talking to this guy from my friend's school. I mean, he always tells me that he gets jealous, blahblahblah, restricting me from being free to talk to my friends that happen to be guys. WHy should i ahve to give up my friends for his convienience when he, himself cant even do so for me? i mean, what imbalanced friendship is this?

and right now, he's telling me online that i ahte him. what can i say, "beeleev whatever you want?" I hold in all this anger from all his complaints, "You ahte me" "you dislike me" "you flrit with ***" "no, i dont flirt with her, you flirt more than me" blahblah blah etc. how annoying does this get.

i try to like him, but i guess i've grown distant from him. i cant talk to him, he makes me mad when i do. I dont know. ROAR!! help??

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

wow .. hold up .. first of all .. if he thinks he can tell you what to do yet not even follow hiw own guidelines then he's still immature and has to grow up .. if he expects you to respect his wishes on talking to other guys, etc. he should do the same .. it seems to me that he's way too flirty to be trusted .. flirting is one thing .. but "rubbing down" and being all touch .. ESPECIALLY with your friends is NOT GOOD AT ALL!! he should respect your feelings and know that it makes you uncomfortable .. it doesn't seem he cares too much for how you feel but rather how he feels at the moment .. he doesn't seem very trustworthy so be very careful .. he's not really worthwhile to like in my eyes .. and it would be a shame to see you get hurt from a guy like that .. don't waste time being angry with him .. just see what else is out there .. i'm sure there are plenty of guys that will be ready to meet you and won't be flirty with every damn girl possible!! .. and if he asks you if you're mad at him .. tell him exactly that .. he does all the wrong things and doesn't respect how you feel so you won't put up with it!!