Why did it end like this? |
 Apr 19 2007, 07:46 AM
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I knew B.B since 9th grade i never really talked to him though because he went out with my bestfriend. Then in the middle of 9th grade i moved away. Two years later i ran into him at my friends house and we clicked, we talked about our past and about his ex ( my former bff) For the next few days he called and asked me out to dinner and i said yes. A week later he asked me out. Everything was going great until my friend looked on his myspace and found that he's been commenting his ex talling her how sexy she was and how her new guy is lucky to have her. That night i was supposed to see him so i asked him about it. He said he didnt know why he said that to her and that he doesnt remember it. I told him if he still loves her maybe he should think about what he wants. He told me to give him another chance and i said ok. Then the next day he calls me and says that he thinks its best if we just ''talk'' and not have the label of bf gf. He said hes moving to NY soon for college and doesnt want anything seriouse and doesnt want to hurt me anymore. It really hurt because this guy was supposed to be different. I dont know what to think. HELP
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Apr 19 2007, 03:39 PM
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If you ask me, i think you should give him credit for being honest with you. It tells me that he actually cares about you and your feelings.
I dont think hes asking her to wait for him..its more of one of those things where its like whatever happens, happens. It is worse to try and force a long distance relationship where you're always wondering what the other is doing and how faithful they are being. |
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Apr 22 2007, 07:22 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
QUOTE(Brilliance @ Apr 19 2007, 9:39 PM)  If you ask me, i think you should give him credit for being honest with you. It tells me that he actually cares about you and your feelings. I dont think hes asking her to wait for him..its more of one of those things where its like whatever happens, happens. It is worse to try and force a long distance relationship where you're always wondering what the other is doing and how faithful they are being. I agree completely. At least he was honest which most people haven't picked up on. Anyways the honesty in itself shows that he does care to some point. The point is that if you two want a relationship to work then those involved must have the desire and want to succeed. Otherwise it's not worth it. Talk to him some more and get a better idea of what he wants and explain to him what you want. Hope things work out for you. |
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Olga.V.K Why did it end like this? Apr 19 2007, 07:46 AM
Monochrome. I think its time for you to drop this fool.Dont le... Apr 19 2007, 09:42 AM .misoshiru well maybe he never liked you that much. Apr 19 2007, 09:40 PM (kiss_dont~kill) dump him..
and maybe he never liked you that much.... Apr 19 2007, 11:26 PM &/degradanca. If he's going to college in the fall and movin... Apr 20 2007, 03:44 AM dahding sounds like you were being used.
however...he did... Apr 20 2007, 06:17 AM
XxBrookxX QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 20 2007, 7:17 AM) sou... Apr 24 2007, 03:15 PM danifibble - Apr 21 2007, 07:11 PM motherdahlia You can't hope a guy is going to be different ... Apr 22 2007, 11:00 PM missmegamerica First off, i think that guy was messed up from the... Apr 23 2007, 10:07 AM Mystic Eyes What the f*ck? If you guys honestly believe the wh... Apr 23 2007, 02:34 PM Olga.V.K Thanks for helping out guys, it really helped me s... Apr 24 2007, 07:18 AM carnelliz2sexy he ended like that because he thought that he mite... Apr 24 2007, 08:14 AM |
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