With every relationship comes conflict Options

[Simba]

Many people say that with every relationship comes conflict. No matter who you're interacting with, chances are that you will conflict with each other at the very least, once.

We always here about this heartbroken people regretting ever getting into relationships. Along with those happily-ever-after people.

What do you think? Do you think bothering to get into relationships is worth it? No pain no gain?

[alysaphobia]

It depends. Not all relationships are worth getting into.

There are relationships that will go predictably wrong; the type you just know won't work out from the beginning. The ones where you know this guy has cheated on you multiple times before and you're considering getting back with him, or you're trying to get with a guy that's a total player, or etc. The "obviously" wrong relationships... I don't think they're worth it. I'm not saying all of those relationships don't work out, but for me, I'd try not to chance it.

Then with most every other relationship- you really just gotta take a chance. I agree, it's quite a game of no pain, no gain. 99% of the time you'll have to just take the leap and see how it goes... because it turns out a lot of relationships can reveal something entirely beautiful and unexpected if you just learn to communicate and get past the arguments.