The hopeless "in love", Guy - G.U.Y. Options

[swishersweet]

So lets say an average looking guy that goes to your school(which you have about 1 or 2 classes with) approaches you/makes the first move how does that make you feel?

You don't really like him in that sort of a way but you know he has the Biggest crush on you.

You know his name and all but you don't really talk to him. Maybe you two just exchange a couple Hi and Byes. He stares at you during class but he just cant seem to tell you how he feels.

What would you respond with if the guy happens to ask you out?

[rorhinna]

hmm, well, I'd definately have to get to know him first.
maybe just hanging out with mutal friends of something to start.

however, personally, and in a lot of cases, people like the chase.
a girl or a guy isn't going to feel as accomplished unless
they feel they won you (I'm not saying people are trophies
to be won, but if its someone you really like and then you actually
get to be with someone, its the greatest feeling, but its someone
you're ok with or a semi interest with, then you don't appeciate
them as much). especially if you know the guy
has a big crush on you, then you know that you could be
with him, and you don't feel as accomplished.

so my advice......don't go full on forward. show interest, but
don't overwhelm her.