Do you talk about the future with your BF/GF?? |
Do you talk about the future with your BF/GF?? |
Apr 12 2007, 03:26 PM
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we are both 21, and we been going for about 5 months. we ocasionally talk about the future. from how we will last until 90 to how our kids going to look like. It felt comfortable talking about it too. Im not sure if this is wayy too soon to talk about stuff like this..
Have YOU talked about the future with your GF/BF?? and how long have you guys been going out?[size=2] |
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Apr 12 2007, 10:07 PM
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my bf and i've been together for nearly three years. we started talking about the future two years into our relationship. like where we're going to live. kids. marriage. stuff like that. it makes me worry if we constantly talk about it and set ourselves up for heartbreak/disappointment. |
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Apr 13 2007, 05:33 AM
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![]() The kooks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
my bf and i've been together for nearly three years. we started talking about the future two years into our relationship. like where we're going to live. kids. marriage. stuff like that. it makes me worry if we constantly talk about it and set ourselves up for heartbreak/disappointment. What's there to worry about. The fact that people speak to their over halfs about the future shows that there committed and genuinely want this to last. So it's purely a good thing. |
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tagheuer Do you talk about the future with your BF/GF?? Apr 12 2007, 03:26 PM
Mystic Eyes I don't think it's too soon to be talking ... Apr 12 2007, 03:56 PM
lostgrl16 i agree with what mystic said. its based on how yo... Apr 12 2007, 04:12 PM
Monochrome. Thats too soon in the relationship to be talking a... Apr 12 2007, 05:18 PM
icecreamisyummy Yea, we talk about it all the time (itll be a mont... Apr 12 2007, 06:49 PM
mishyerr I do! I've been dating my boyfriend for ov... Apr 12 2007, 06:55 PM
xcaitlinx ^ me too. =] Apr 12 2007, 08:05 PM
SimplicityGirl Yup...we've been dating for a little over half... Apr 12 2007, 09:12 PM
xMayleex Well I do talk about the future with him. Not exac... Apr 14 2007, 05:55 PM
katssso I don't tend to talk about the future, or not ... Apr 14 2007, 05:56 PM
cvchango yea and it f**ked me over... Apr 14 2007, 06:02 PM
designingskills Sometimes but she likes not to because she wants t... Apr 14 2007, 06:50 PM
pinacoolada Yeah we do. But it's not like "OMG. We ar... Apr 18 2007, 12:15 AM
th5418 Yeah, you guys should talk about the future. You k... Apr 18 2007, 12:54 AM![]() ![]() |