14/15-year olds who have sex = No-No Options

[JerzDevil]

I truly believe if I had sex at this current age, god would send me to hell. I am christian, but i'm not trying to make this too of a religious issue. It's a life issue. I truly feel bad for the 14/15-year olds who has lost their virginity already. I call them dumbass losers because they've taken the wrong path in their life and their parents shouldve explained them better what to do and what not to do at certain times. Any intercourse, IMO is considered sex!! don't care if it's vaginal, oral, or extreme!!! i believe after you graduate high school is the perfect time to start that shit. i know kids my age who had sex with girls they weren't even bfs/gf's with which makes it sound more riduculous and stupid. that's what they claim. what do u guys think about this issue

[*mishyerr*]

I understand where you're coming from about teenagers being too young to start having sex, but you have to realize that your morals cannot be everyone else's morals. My friend started having sex at the age of 14; her parents were from Sweden, and they didn't mind it at all. In fact, they started her on birth control at the age of 13 and reminded her to use condoms. It wasn't a huge deal to them.

I've heard this stereotype about how America condemns sex but favors violence, whereas Europe (mostly Western Europe) condemns violence and favors sex. Honestly, I think Europe's got the right idea. I'd much prefer a country where students had KNOWLEDGE about sex and did the right thing by their own morals rather than kids going around shooting people in school.

You're looking at sex as if it were 'sacred, holy intercourse.' Many do not view it this way. Random hookups happen because both are just looking for a fun time. People who can have one-night-stands usually don't reguard "sex" in the same way you do. Calling people who have sex in middle-school and high-school "dumbass losers" is not only ignorant, it just makes you misrepresent Christianity (like so many others.. -_-"). Your opinion does not give you the right to judge them for who they are. Them having sex does not affect you at all, unless you beg to hear about their little adventures. You should be open to them and tell them about the possible consequences.

Also, if you think that God will send you to hell for having sex at this age, you clearly have not read the Bible. God will forgive all who truly regret and ask for forgiveness. Sin does not have any measure; all sin is the same. You think that kids who have sex are 'dumbass losers' and sinners, but do you not realize every time you lie and cuss, you are on the same level as those 'dumbass losers'?

Yet again, I'd like to say I agree it is unwise to start having sex at such a young age, but there is nothing we can do about it as friends or acquaintances except to let them know the consequences and still accept them.