boyfriend problems Options

[spongeboblover]

My boyfriend and I have been sorta having problems. Its a long distance relationship so its kinda hard. We started going out March 27th 2007 and we broke up twice already basically trust issues. We broke up on April 4th because i didn't answer my phone because i was at my friends house and got back together. Then we broke up again on the 5th because i was on the phone with my dad and didn't pick up and got back together. He him self says he doesn't trust me. Am i doing stuff for him not to trust me? By going to my friends house and talking on the phone with my dad? Is that not trust worthy? So far today which is the 6th, we have been fine.

I think the relationship is rather boring. I like him but when we talk on the phone neither of us have anything to say. Basically its hey whats what are you doing blah blah blah then silence. Then we end up having phone sex which is alright but i rather not do that ever day like once and awhile is ok then he gets mad because i wont do it.

I think the only reason were together is the videos i send him and the pictures. I barely get any pictures or videos back.

I also think he thinks i do stuff wrong by reading this, Do you think i am doing anything wrong? and also i wanna know what kind of relationship do we have?

Thanks in advance!

[Jinny]

no, your not doing stuff for him to not trust you. you're only talking you your dad on the phone. he's your DAD. and your boyfriend got mad over that? so, in order for him to trust you, you can't even talk to your dad on the phone but you have to answer every single call he makes? ...

your not doing ANYTHING wrong. he shouldn't be breaking up with you for that. unless you did something realllly wrong in the past, then maybe that's why he can't trust you. but if you didn't cheat or anything, then it's not your fault.

[spongeboblover]

no, your not doing stuff for him to not trust you. you're only talking you your dad on the phone. he's your DAD. and your boyfriend got mad over that? so, in order for him to trust you, you can't even talk to your dad on the phone but you have to answer every single call he makes? ...

your not doing ANYTHING wrong. he shouldn't be breaking up with you for that. unless you did something realllly wrong in the past, then maybe that's why he can't trust you. but if you didn't cheat or anything, then it's not your fault.

i know i dont understand him but its over for good.. yea i didnt cheat on him or anything but thanks

pic of u plz

fyi tell him he is not worth ur time
own him

the only way ill send you pics if i get to know you
do you have a screen name on aim?
mine is I 1 L 7 Y

and by the way i broke up with him thanks

If your boyfriend can't even trust that you are only on the phone with your dad then why even bother to be with him. There's probably someone better more close to home.

yea thats true.. i broke up with him for good.. i gotta look for someone better and closer thanks

Okay, let me tell you from experience on different relationships, all of which have covered the same issues you're going through: IT'S NOT WORTH IT. I guarentee you... you could be spending your time on someone so much better. This is so not worth the trouble you're going through.

And you've only been together for what, a week and a half? Wtf. This is stupid. DUMP HIMMMMM.

yea i know its stupid butyea i broke up with him thank you