Waiting Too Long? Options

[dododiva]

I'm 14, never had a boyfriend before, and still waiting for that first kiss. There's a boy I've had a crush on since 6th grade, so it's been about 3 years. I know we've liked each other for those 3 years (the signs.....and his friends recently telling me that he liked me that long was sort of a big give away). I'm a shy person, but at certain times i talk to him, trying to act like he's just another boy, but he doesn't talk to me, he just stares. I don't know why, but I'm attracted to him and i can't seem to get him out of my head. I've had several crushes in those 3 years, but i always end up liking him the most.

Am i waiting too long for something that won't ever happen?

[SimplicityGirl]

How bout give him a little nudge? Even though you both like each other...nothings gonna happen if neither of you do anything about it. Before we got together...I knew he liked me and I liked him...I figured I wait for him to take the initiative...waited for about 3 months...and dropped huge hints...he said he liked me too...but nothing happened. So one day I just told him I'd like us to be more than friends and here we are, half a year later =)

You don't have to do anything big...you can just hang out with him alone, or start doing stuff together alone. =)