boyfriend problems Options

[spongeboblover]

My boyfriend and I have been sorta having problems. Its a long distance relationship so its kinda hard. We started going out March 27th 2007 and we broke up twice already basically trust issues. We broke up on April 4th because i didn't answer my phone because i was at my friends house and got back together. Then we broke up again on the 5th because i was on the phone with my dad and didn't pick up and got back together. He him self says he doesn't trust me. Am i doing stuff for him not to trust me? By going to my friends house and talking on the phone with my dad? Is that not trust worthy? So far today which is the 6th, we have been fine.

I think the relationship is rather boring. I like him but when we talk on the phone neither of us have anything to say. Basically its hey whats what are you doing blah blah blah then silence. Then we end up having phone sex which is alright but i rather not do that ever day like once and awhile is ok then he gets mad because i wont do it.

I think the only reason were together is the videos i send him and the pictures. I barely get any pictures or videos back.

I also think he thinks i do stuff wrong by reading this, Do you think i am doing anything wrong? and also i wanna know what kind of relationship do we have?

Thanks in advance!

[Cujiine]

Well he seems to have trust issues so tell him that you can do what you want and assure him that you're not doing anything wrong. Give him an ultimatum, if you don't trust me I shouldn't trust you and a relationship can't work if we don't trust each other. Tell him that you have a life besides him and that you don't wanna have phone sex every day. If he can't handle that then just leave him. He should respect your choices.