Confused Options

[Ashley_Brook]

To make a long story short, I was talking to this one guy I work with for a few months., Nick. He liked me and I like him, and we hung out a couple times but noting really happened. Then he suddenly stops flirting with me and talking to me, and I didn't really know why. I was just starting to think that it was because he thought I was boring or something. Several weeks later, this new guy comes to work, Aaron, and Aaron immediately made it known that he liked me. He asked me out on a date and I said yes and then everyone at work knew him and I were talking. Then, Nick suddenly starts to get a little hostile sounding with me while at work, you know...talking to me with a crappy attitude, and instead of smiling at me like he used to, he sometimes gives me glares like he is mad and flips me off..which made me wonder if it was because he heard about me starting to talk to Aaron and he might be jealous and still have feelings for me. A couple weeks pass by and Nick tries to start to flirt with me again one night...and then boom, he turns hostile with me again the night after. I sure don't talk about Aaron around Nick, and the only reason I can think of for his attitude is if he is hearing things about me and Aaron from others at work.

Then today I noticed that he took me off of his top friends list on myspace (yeah, stupid I know) and I asked him about it and he was all like, "I don't know. I didn't really pay attention..didn't think it was a big deal." And I'm thinking, "I know how people take someone off of their friends list...you do it on purpose." But I just let it go before it turned into an argument.

I don't know. I'm wondering...does he still like me and is jealous or is he just lost interest? My gut is telling me that he still does have feelings for me, but I'm not totally sure. The truth is, I like Nick more than I like Aaron too, so if Nick does still like me...I want to be with him. Damn I'm so confused.

[Chanfleh]

I don't like Nick. I say that because I was in a similar situation, just not in your shoes. I was Aaron. I'd say give Aaron a chance, get to know him, see how he's like and such. Compare them. Does Aaron do that? Flirt with you one day then the next day be a complete ass?
The problem with Nick is he might be jealous, but maybe only because he wants you as flirting material, so if you were to get with Aaron he wouldn't be able to. Nick seems childish. I don't know, you know more than I do.