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 Apr 3 2007, 08:11 PM
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 My peanut.  Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456  |
Well basically, both of my best friends have best friends... and Im 16 and never had a real relationship and I want one reallllllly bad. :(( I dont know what to do. I never kissed anyone.. either. I really want a boyfriend and I dont know what to do in order to get one. It seems like all these girls dont have to do anything in order to get a boyfriend. I dont know what to do.. I must be broken.
 any advice??
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Apr 5 2007, 12:44 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I went through the same phase as you did. When I was 16, I wanted a boyfriend REALLY badly. It was to the point of pure envy and jealousy whenever I see a new couple spring up, or seeing existing couples walk the hallways hand in hand, looking ever so happy together. I wanted one. And I got one with near shameless flirting with this guy...we got together, and didn't last. We weren't happy. The relationship happened because I had pushed it to happen...hell the guy didn't even like me back as I found out when he broke up with me.
I don't know if this is true, but one of my guy friends told me that guys can feel it when a girl is desperate for boyfriend. He says their general approach is more aggressive and wants to take things to the next level really fast. If you want a boyfriend, you need to wait for it. I know it's cliche and its probably not what you wanted to hear, but its the only way. Meanwhile, make friends with guys and get to know them better. Who knows? Maybe one of them will have a thing for you =) And...these things happen when you least expect it, so don't look for it =) I know that cuz my boyfriend right now is probably one of the last people I'd think I could date, and yet, by some a series of crazy events last year, we're together now. I'll leave you with these lyrics: "You can't hurry love, No you just have to wait, You gotta trust, give it time, No matter how long it takes" |
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RupertGrintluvr15 boyfriends Apr 3 2007, 08:11 PM
suddenly she gotta CHEEEEELLLLZizzlez
Well, don't you have... Apr 3 2007, 08:15 PM mishyerr You can just wait. Some people don't date unti... Apr 3 2007, 08:17 PM Fragil_BlackRose QUOTE(RupertGrintluvr15 @ Apr 3 2007, 6:1... Apr 3 2007, 08:20 PM
XxBrookxX QUOTE(Fragil_BlackRose @ Apr 3 2007, 9:20... May 6 2007, 10:00 AM mary kate i know how you feel, and my best friend is going t... Apr 3 2007, 08:28 PM .misoshiru you lasso one, then bribe him. Apr 3 2007, 09:39 PM XxBrookxX QUOTE(.misoshiru @ Apr 3 2007, 10:39 PM) ... Apr 10 2007, 01:24 PM free2love_2007 you just gotta be patient
i know it really sux to ... Apr 4 2007, 01:40 AM pinacoolada Just wait for it. ^_^ Apr 4 2007, 04:23 PM &/degradanca. do you tend to be more shy while your best friends... Apr 5 2007, 06:15 AM lilxl0ser you're SO not broken...i'm in my first rel... Apr 5 2007, 11:57 AM literemix24 I'm sure lots of people in this world don... Apr 9 2007, 10:00 PM cupcakex You really should just wait.
It's annoying wai... Apr 10 2007, 02:51 AM Endless_Symphony don't get a boyfriend just for the sake of get... Apr 10 2007, 05:02 PM vietbabiiix3 don't look for love.
let love find you. May 5 2007, 08:50 PM Mystic Eyes Everyone else has summed it up. Don't force or... May 6 2007, 07:52 AM Amechi all my friends had girl friends when i was 16-18. ... May 6 2007, 04:39 PM pinacoolada Oh God. Why is everyone worried about getting a bo... May 6 2007, 08:03 PM |
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