he's so jealous., ughh help. |
he's so jealous., ughh help. |
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okay so my boyfriend, he's great and everything. but he's so jealous of every guy in my school. if they look at me, smile, or talk to me. he thinks they like me. and i don't know what to do.
he doesnt trust me at all. which he does have one reason to not. but that was aloooong time ago. and i want his trust back. so i can do what i want, & be happy. what to do what to do help me out? <3 |
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it's scary when relationships enter this stage.
someone fucks up, trust is out the window. he/she gives you another chance, but that chance is revenge in disguise. THEY WONT TRUST YOU FOR SHIT!!! you will feel guilty for f**king up, and you will do everything to earn their trust back. you will give up your pride, dignity, happiness, etc. for the sake of "love" this will remain in your conscience for a while; if you hadn't f**ked up, you wouldn't be in this situation, yadda yadda yadda. Look. You messed up. You apologized. He said he'd give you once last chance, but if he turns into a jealous fiend who would yell and cuss and trip over the most ridiculous things like an old man waving hi to you; LET IT GO. It is not worth it. Guys become that way because their PRIDE is on the line. If he really loves you, he'll choose YOU over his PRIDE. If he remains acting like a jealous freak, DROP HIM. You already apologized, you tried to gain his trust, but i'm sorry to say this but he will always have that void in him. he will always doubt you even if he says he doesn't. Once a guy gets possesive and obsessed... shit gets scary. You become their property. You lose your humanity. Maybe I'm overexagerrating.. but I'm still healing from my wounds. I went through this at a LARGER SCALE and it got reallllly bad. I hope you figure things out and it works out for the best. |
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