crush on manager, advice needed, plz |
 Mar 27 2007, 08:57 AM
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Hi,
I hv this kinda crush on ma boss, he's in his 40's and i'm on my 20's. Recently, he asked if I wanted to spent the night with him, and I refused and he said that he was just teasing me, and he said that he was just missing me that's why he was texting, since I wasnt working for sometime. He's married and he has 4 children all of them older than me. I was working the other day and I was so nervous, and I didnt know what to say, I was pretending as if nothing had happened, and so was he. I cant stop thinking about him, and I dont know if he has noticed that I like him and that's why he was texting me. Sometimes when he's near I'm all turned on,and I have had several dreams about him (I really enjoyed it in my dreams) however sometimes the thought of me spending the night with him makes me sick. Any adivice is welcomed. Thanks, Emma |
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Mar 30 2007, 01:39 PM
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I can only say, from personal experience, getting involved with a married man (regardless of age, regardless of this person being someone you work with) is really not a good idea. Someone is bound to get very hurt in the process, especially if there are children involved.
The age gap is pretty steep, but I'm really more concerned that the boss is making moves on you, particularly (bah, I'm tired and not sure if I spelled that correctly) since you are someone he supervises and because he's married. I'd be worried that he is trying to take advantage of a younger, impressionable girl. It may hurt for a little while, but I think that you shouldn't give this relationship (if that's what you'd call it) any merit at all. |
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freshnlo crush on manager, advice needed, plz Mar 27 2007, 08:57 AM
Endless_Symphony obviously you have moral problems with him hitting... Mar 27 2007, 06:54 PM
Jinny QUOTE(Endless_Symphony @ Mar 27 2007, 6:5... Mar 27 2007, 06:59 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE Yeah, there's something wrong with this pictur... Mar 27 2007, 07:34 PM angel_revelation I would find it scary if my boss texted me Or any... Mar 27 2007, 08:48 PM chasingvictory well you said that he is married. and that changes... Mar 27 2007, 08:53 PM mishyerr I think you're letting your emotions and feeli... Mar 27 2007, 08:59 PM cupcakex You should start looking for a job elsewhere.
Imag... Mar 27 2007, 09:13 PM &/degradanca. ^agreed.
i don't think it's even allowed, ... Mar 28 2007, 01:06 AM cupcakex QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Mar 28 2007, 2... Mar 28 2007, 01:52 AM freshnlo Thanks to all of you that have replied. Mar 28 2007, 04:24 AM Evanescere I personally don't think the age difference is... Mar 28 2007, 01:37 PM inspector178 Stay out of a married persons life! You will m... Mar 30 2007, 01:32 PM xoxo_koala_kisses_ My manager's husband of 14 years cheated on he... Mar 30 2007, 02:12 PM |
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