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 Jan 31 2006, 03:05 PM
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 omygay  Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,195  |
One of my good gay guy friends kinda used me for sex. He knew I liked him and he used that against me. Should I still be friends with him, because I still want to be friends. But he sometimes tells me he wants to be friends with benefits but should I do that after he used me first?
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Feb 8 2006, 06:18 AM
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 speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
My situation is hella similar to yours. Except instead of him being my friend, this is my boyfriend. The only time he ever calls is when he wants to have sex. The only time he ever says "I love you" or call me "baby", is when we are having sex. On a normal basis, he calls me dude. And after sex I feel hella used. And stupid, and mad at myself for giving in so easily. My suggestion to you is that you should continue being friends with him. And you can always look at benefits as a plus. If the sex is good, I think its worth it.
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Mar 29 2007, 09:22 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
QUOTE(REBELnDISGUISE @ Feb 8 2006, 7:18 AM)  My situation is hella similar to yours. Except instead of him being my friend, this is my boyfriend. The only time he ever calls is when he wants to have sex. The only time he ever says "I love you" or call me "baby", is when we are having sex. On a normal basis, he calls me dude. And after sex I feel hella used. And stupid, and mad at myself for giving in so easily. My suggestion to you is that you should continue being friends with him. And you can always look at benefits as a plus. If the sex is good, I think its worth it. Same here. Mine dumped me because I wouldnt go to his house and have sex with him. His cover up story was "I miss you and I just wanted to see you" even though he saw me at school the day before. If you want to be friends with him thats fine I guess just if you think you'll regret it later on dont do it. |
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fa.ggot Used for sex? Jan 31 2006, 03:05 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK I was confused with your last phrase
If you wa... Jan 31 2006, 03:10 PM lilxl0ser wow he used you and yet you still want to be frien... Jan 31 2006, 04:30 PM
fa.ggot QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Jan 31 2006, 3:30 PM)wow he... Jan 31 2006, 04:47 PM
Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Jan 31 2006, 5:30 PM)wow he... Jan 31 2006, 04:52 PM lilxl0ser QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 4:52... Feb 1 2006, 02:38 PM Acid Bath Slayer 1. What do you want from the friendship?
2. What d... Jan 31 2006, 07:27 PM AngelicEyz00 Just f**k him. It's a win win situation. He ge... Jan 31 2006, 07:32 PM Shahin QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jan 31 2006, 4:32 PM)Jus... Feb 1 2006, 12:22 AM chaneun ^ LOL.
wait, so you had sex with him already? Jan 31 2006, 07:37 PM priyas he used you. Jan 31 2006, 07:59 PM dorkk-ie did you like his sex? Feb 1 2006, 01:57 AM Blow_Don't_SUCK ^My point was... It's difficult for him to let... Feb 1 2006, 02:40 PM starlette If I was you, I would steer clear. Unless you jus... Feb 1 2006, 03:04 PM ikn0wurm0m Does he really know how you feel or does he think ... Feb 1 2006, 04:14 PM Elmo's Lover I suggest you find someone else to f**k Feb 1 2006, 04:18 PM FoxBandCutie08 You should tell him that you're not interested... Feb 1 2006, 05:32 PM _sarcastic_ i would stay away from him, unless you really want... Feb 1 2006, 07:58 PM slut psh, you probably like the thought of him using yo... Feb 1 2006, 08:57 PM fa.ggot Sorry I have been on vacation but here are my repl... Feb 2 2006, 01:37 AM Acid Bath Slayer QUOTE(fa.ggot @ Feb 2 2006, 1:37 AM)1. I want... Feb 3 2006, 01:12 PM sadolakced acid i dunno; if it were me, i'd just take the cons... Feb 2 2006, 02:17 AM wickedvampire3 i dont know...i dont think so....he used you....an... Feb 6 2006, 03:55 PM AsianUniQ soo.....you still want to be his friend, but you d... Feb 7 2006, 03:53 AM fa.ggot QUOTE(REBELnDISGUISE @ Feb 8 2006, 5:18 AM)My... Feb 8 2006, 05:19 PM xxtaintedlips Look at it this way. Gay guys dont have sex with g... Feb 8 2006, 05:29 PM Blow_Don't_SUCK QUOTE(xxtaintedlips @ Feb 8 2006, 6:29 PM)Loo... Feb 8 2006, 06:23 PM Brilliance QUOTE(xxtaintedlips @ Feb 8 2006, 4:29 PM... Mar 29 2007, 04:01 PM letterboop if he only wants to use you for sex then it's ... Mar 25 2007, 08:14 PM gr00vyswordsman wow lol...sounds like im in your situation. From r... Mar 26 2007, 08:49 AM ola says hola you need to talk to him about what you want & ... Mar 26 2007, 11:29 AM gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(ola says hola @ Mar 26 2007, 12:29 ... Mar 26 2007, 02:02 PM makin it rain I hope your families are ashamed of you. I know an... Mar 29 2007, 09:37 PM Shortnsweet88 If I were you I would give myself two options...
... Mar 30 2007, 12:18 AM cupcakex You're the one letting him have sex with you.
... Mar 30 2007, 08:52 AM &/degradanca. well... it may not have been his intention to use ... Mar 30 2007, 10:08 PM |
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