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[henry795uk]

Well me and my g/f have been having some problems latley. I worry to much about what she is up to and therfore i ask questions about everything. I also get incredibly jelous with her talkin to other blokes. I am like this because she is always flirting and telling me about this other guy she says is Her "best mate" also she sometimes has off days with me and that is why i ask questions.

She has recently told me that i drive her insane with asking questions and always worrying and being paranoid. now i dnt know whether she is right? or that i am right and she should change so that i dnt worry. i need help with this and help with the whole asking questions problem.

oh and another thing my g/f smokes and i hate smoking, she has told me she will never quit. and i dnt know what to do about that either because i really wish she would quit.

really need help on this, please help! cheers x

[love-issosweet]

About the question thing, I suggest that you should try to back off. If I was her in that situation, I would feel that you are really insecure and seriously lack trust in your girlfriend. I mean...she wouldn't be with you unless she liked you, right? &&I'm assuming that she's the flirty type and that's just her nature, but she chose you over all the other guys so I don't think you need to be worrying.

As for the smoking problem, just talk to her. You probably care about her health and smoking is just unattractive.