crush on manager, advice needed, plz Options

[emma001young]

Hi,

I hv this kinda crush on ma boss, he's in his 40's and i'm on my 20's. Recently, he asked if I wanted to spent the night with him, and I refused and he said that he was just teasing me, and he said that he was just missing me that's why he was texting, since I wasnt working for sometime. He's married and he has 4 children all of them older than me.
I was working the other day and I was so nervous, and I didnt know what to say, I was pretending as if nothing had happened, and so was he.
I cant stop thinking about him, and I dont know if he has noticed that I like him and that's why he was texting me.

Sometimes when he's near I'm all turned on,and I have had several dreams about him (I really enjoyed it in my dreams) however sometimes the thought of me spending the night with him makes me sick.


Any adivice is welcomed.
Thanks, Emma

[*mishyerr*]

I think you're letting your emotions and feelings overcome the consequences of any sort of sexual relationship with him (sometimes). I mean, if you think about how his children and his wife will be affected versus how you will be 'pleasured' by him, then that will probably help you safely leave the thought of any relationship with him. I'm sure you don't mean to do anything with your manager, since that would be sad and, imo, wrong to his family and yourself. I think if the temptation to further a relationship becomes too big, you should quit your job and work elsewhere- somewhere you will most likely never see him again.