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lying, when a guy lies
ash08lhc
post Mar 23 2007, 03:30 AM
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you know what i hate? when a guy lies to you. its the worst thing a guy can do. i was texting to my boyfriend and we were having this fight and i told him that i wanted to take a little break. at the same time i was talking to his best friend (whom i sorta have a thing for) and he was telling me that my boyfriend was crying and just giving me updates. after a while i was telling my boyfriend's best friend that i sorta had a thing for someone else. after a few hours of this my boyfriend finally texted me saying "i have a confession. it was really me on (his best friend)'s phone." i got so pissed and just stopped talking to him. he lied to me because i even asked "is this really (his best friend)? it doesn't really sound like you." so he lied. big time. that is not right. what should i do?
 
 
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SimplicityGirl
post Mar 24 2007, 11:30 PM
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Like everyone else has said before me, sure he lied. Sure what he did wasn't that great, and sure you have every right to be pissed at him, but hey, don't make yourself the victim here, cuz you're not. What kind of girlfriend ARE you to your boyfriend if you like his BESTFRIEND. If you LIKED his bestfriend, then why did you go out with him in the first place. And I suggest you NOT go out with your guy's bestfriend even if the two of you DO break up, because you'd be breaking the unwritten rule of never have anything to do with your friend's ex...cuz you might cause some serious damage to their friendship.

You're at fault. Go apologize to him and have a talk. And about the whole break thing...don't drag it on. If you want to split, then split. Breaks are messy.
 

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