gf AND bf?, I don't think its right. |
gf AND bf?, I don't think its right. |
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![]() ThePinkPanda ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 ![]() |
A lot of people at my school think it's okay to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time. And a lot of them do. I just don't think it's right. Isn't it just the same thing as cheating??
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![]() straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 ![]() |
It seems most everyone who's posted is very much against the idea of having a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time... My question is, if everyone involved consents to it, what's the problem? Now, if not everyone in this multiple person relationship knows about the other members, I can understand the problem with that, but why is just the idea of anyone being with multiple people so wrong to you?
I'm not saying I support multiple person relationships or even think they're a good idea, I'm just wondering. I mean, most of you also commented that you've never so much as known someone who has been in one of these relationships. So how can you make judgements? I have been in a three person relationship, and I dont really think it was a good idea. I mean, I enjoyed it while it lasted... apart from all the problems with one person paying too much attention to one over the other... and crap like that. It was fun. But I still dont think it was worth it. It ended up ruining the relationship I had with my bf before we added the gf on. which is sort of ironic cuz I agreed on the three person relationship partially to try to keep him from leaving me. I really dont think they're a good idea, but if you want to be in a multiple person relationship and everyone involved consents to this (genuinely consents... not meaning they agree out of fear that they'll lose their bf/gf if they dont agree) then whatever, its their lives, they can do whatever they want. |
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