what says "I'm a lesbian?" Options

[DawnaRose]

Is there something a woman can wear jewelry or otherwise that will clearly identify her to other lesbians that she is a lesbian too and available?
I'm going through a divorce so not quite ready to wear a rainbow flag and not totally out yet but wondered is there something I could do now that would signal to other lesbian women
that my little heart beats for women and women only? This would open the door for friendships to happen an romance to bloom down the road, hopefully! Thanks so much, Dawna Rose

[*Duchess of Dork*]

I think that you need to stop thinking so hard about it. I don't mean that with any disrespect, but it would seem that you are a little hung up on this idea that there's blatent female homosexuality. Fact is, many (if not most) lesbians are very feminine and there isn't really a lesbian lo-jack out there.

What I would suggest is to make eye contact, flirt, do what anyone would typically do to express interest. That way the person would be attracted to you for being you, not simply because you are a fellow lesbian.

I know it may seem challenging because you don't want to risk offending anyone, but I really would try to focus on the interaction between people.