A cinderella story that was never there., should I brake up with her now Options

[gr00vyswordsman]

Ive been thinking about this for awhile, and really appreciate your alls thoughts. If your in a relationship, or were in one, What would you want to happen? I thank you all cb who are reading! I do have some feelings for her still, though in the end we don't really work together ( some differences in personality and hobbies that just dont fit and will never....fit)

Let's say you were in a relationship and your boyfriend had to move to a new state for some months. Believing your boyfriend still loves and wants to continue the relationship, you bought flight tickets to see/spend time your man for 3 days, and the last time you saw each other was 3 months ago.. Though in reality, he would have the relationship aspect not coninue.

Though he still would like to be friends with her, she may be hurt too much and not wanna accept his friendship. Would you rather have the relationship aspect stop before or soon after the visit? ( keep in mind already that she already bought flight tickets).

[*Intercourse.*]

Okay, I'm just going to answer every question you asked.

If your in a relationship, or were in one, What would you want to happen?
I don't really set expectations on relationships. I think in the end you may get disappointed for setting them to high so I just don't bother. I mean over time I will get some expectations but their not set very high. I mean if I was getting in to a relationship I would at least want it to work out and get to know the person and make a true effort not to let it fail.

Let's say you were in a relationship and your boyfriend had to move to a new state for some months.
Well the funny thing about that paragraph is. My boyfriend lives in New York and I'm stuck in North Carolina, yet its always been that way. I went and saw him in December (mid) and he came and saw me in December as well (late) and thats the last time we've seen each other. I really see it as if the other person makes an effort to want to come see you then they have to really like you and care about you. Since I mean they did take the time to buy their own plane ticket and take off work and other things to come see you.

not have the relationship continue and after the girl has bought the plane ticket
To be honest, I think if you really felt strongly about not wanting to be in the relationship anymore I think you should throughly explain why you don't want to be with your partner so they completely understand. And then I mean most relationships do end in friendship so if they already bought the plane ticket then why not still come down and have a good time? Or if a refund was available they could always get that if they didn't feel that way.




reading your newest post
Well I'm glad you talked to them about it all and how you really felt. Communication is one of the major things that relationships lack now-a-days it seems. I don't think they should keep you away from your hobbies or interests thats what makes you, you. And if they can't accept those then they can't accept you in the end so I mean sometimes they have to make a sacrifice and I don't see this as being to big of one.