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Friends.., Why do they have to start so many things
post Jun 5 2004, 08:25 PM
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You see, I have these 2 friends; Alexus and Joanne. I've been best friends with Alexus and Joanne for the same amount of years and we are really close. A couple of months ago, Alexus broke up with her boyfriend and Joanne started to go out him. Now, Alexus hates Joanne and whenever I hang out with her, she b!tches at me. Like today, I hugged Joanne and whatever and Alexus got all upset. Why are people like this, how do you think I should take care of this?
 
 
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post Jun 9 2004, 07:45 PM
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how weird.
i just went through a situation really similar to that.
except it wasn't about a boyfriend..but they seriously hated each other.
here's what i did: i wrote them each a personal email about how i felt. i told them i felt like i was being pulled in two different directions. i felt like if i was friends with one, the other one would be mad. vice versa. i told them i couldn't chose between either of them because i love them so much and they both mean a lot to me.
i just let them resolve it. i said, whenever your with me, just don't talk about them if it's going to be all negative because i'm still friends with them.
if they can't accept that, maybe they're not who you thought they were. maybe they need some time to think about it.. if you were really good friends, i think the person should do it for you.. they have no reason to be mad at you.
well i hope everything works out with your situation.. _smile.gif
 

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