Sisters' Boyfriend/Fiance, Ugh! Options

[princess*missy]

Hey Everybody..

My sisters' boyfriend/fiance is really starting to bug me. He already knows I don't exactly "approve" of him marrying my sister. He's a sweet guy and he comes from a great family, he's just very overprotective, and wants my sister around him 24/7 and doesn't want her hanging out with anyone else... no other guy friends, no girl friends, he even kinda gets mad when she hangs with me... He also wants to know where she is at every single second of the day. It really bugs me... Well anyways, that's just what type of guy he is... Here's my reason for posting.

Everytime my sister, her b/f, and me hang out together, he's always asking questions about MY personal life. Like how many guys I've had sex with, or if I'm a virgin, and when i'm at school, he spies on me and tells my sister what I'm doing. Like one day, I gave this guy a hug (he was black and I'm white) and she told me that her b/f told her that I needed to stay away from him.. My sisters' b/f is racist.I'm not racist, nor is my sister. It's driving me insane, I can't date anyone without matthew getting in the middle of it somehow. My sister has literally had to get onto him for getting into my business and that still doesn't seem to help.. What should I do?

[princess*missy]

Thanks everyone for replying. I'm definitely gonna talk to her about it...

And this one goes to URONACID...
no, I don't think he's trying to control me, I just think he gets mad because my sister doesn't wanna spend all her time with him, she wants to spend it with me and our mom.

Love, Meg