What have you dealt with for your S.O.?, significant other Options

[*suddenly she*]

From anyone - friends, family, random strangers, etc. I'm pretty sure I can't be the only one that gets beat over the head for being with someone.

My parents found out that we were seeing each other in March 2006, after we had been for half a year. It was the first day during spring break and my mom saw us hug on the front lawn before he left in the afternoon. She put me in my room, closed the door, and lectured me for a couple hours. When dad came home, she told him and he totally exploded. He was yelling at me in the middle of the house until my sister had to go to sleep, so we went to my room where he continued yelling at me until about 3 in the morning.

I tried to sleep then, except I could tell the lights were on in the rest of the house and that my dad was standing outside the door from the shadows in the crack. He walked in and out of my room a couple times and slammed the door while I was on my bed... It was dark so I couldn't see too much. I asked him what he was doing and he wouldn't say anything. Eventually I fell asleep and the next morning I woke up and my camera, contacts, and a bunch of books were gone. I didn't get them back for two months and every time my dad got angry, he'd go to my room and take more things. Eventually, the only thing I had in my room was a bed and a half-empty closet.

That's the beginning.
It gets worse farther on (my parents have been absolutely bonkers because of us for more than a year now)... but I'll post the rest as the thread grows!

I never really catalogued what's happened since, so I thought I might as well start somehow.

[*suddenly she*]

I had my boyfriend on the front lawn another time because we were thinking about getting coffee. Then my mom walked outside and saw us and was just like, WTF NO. Basically the same things that happened on day one happened again, except I got yelled at/lectured until five in the morning. I finally got tired of my dad telling me that I was a dirty whore and told him I was going to sleep, and he wouldn't let me. I remember him saying exactly that, "If I'm not getting any sleep, neither are you." He wouldn't really let me leave the room either, so I just sat in the living room for the next three hours with eyes open while he paced around the house slamming doors and throwing things.

There were a couple instances where my mom would just get furious with me even though I hadn't seen my boyfriend, because her memory of me hugging someone pissed her off. She'd just take me to my room, lecture me, and eventually throw things at me. Whenever I did anything wrong at all, even if it was not turning the sink off fast enough, she'd start yelling and eventually it'd lead from turning the sink off faster to why I couldn't have a boyfriend and how it turned me into a worse person.

I got sick of that too a couple times and told her to let me know when she was going to be civil about it so we could discuss it diplomatically. When she kept yelling and I just pulled out my homework, she jumped in front of me and started choking me with her hands.

It didn't really affect me too much since she didn't know how and I've always been stronger than her, so I just watched her face while she did. Emotionally I was too screwed over and tired of her dumb antics to care that my mom was attempting to kill me.

Haha, and Tina... I didn't have a computer for long. I never owned a computer or a cell phone, and soon after the hugging tragedy I was banned from the computer and the house phone... my parents disconnected the phone and took it with them every time they left the house, even if it was only for a half hour. It's comical, really.

more later.