Sisters' Boyfriend/Fiance, Ugh! Options

[princess*missy]

Hey Everybody..

My sisters' boyfriend/fiance is really starting to bug me. He already knows I don't exactly "approve" of him marrying my sister. He's a sweet guy and he comes from a great family, he's just very overprotective, and wants my sister around him 24/7 and doesn't want her hanging out with anyone else... no other guy friends, no girl friends, he even kinda gets mad when she hangs with me... He also wants to know where she is at every single second of the day. It really bugs me... Well anyways, that's just what type of guy he is... Here's my reason for posting.

Everytime my sister, her b/f, and me hang out together, he's always asking questions about MY personal life. Like how many guys I've had sex with, or if I'm a virgin, and when i'm at school, he spies on me and tells my sister what I'm doing. Like one day, I gave this guy a hug (he was black and I'm white) and she told me that her b/f told her that I needed to stay away from him.. My sisters' b/f is racist.I'm not racist, nor is my sister. It's driving me insane, I can't date anyone without matthew getting in the middle of it somehow. My sister has literally had to get onto him for getting into my business and that still doesn't seem to help.. What should I do?

[alysaphobia]

hmm...
it's cool he's taking an interest in your life, at least. but i think when he asks you really personal questions you should drop him a hint, like "umm... that's kind of private"... and then laugh it off or something, just avoid answering him. with the racist thing... it's definitely annoying but i'd just try my best to ignore it, especially if it's only happened once or twice. he's your sister's bf/fiance, she loves him for who he is and you won't have to deal with him as often after he marries your sister. i'd avoid trying to cause waves.

if he really crosses the line with racist comments, you should speak up though. tell him that whatever he said offended you.