friend who acts, different now ... Options

[demolished]

Recently, I had been feeling annoyed, irritated, and angered to a great friend of mine. Dude, there is something screwing up my mind. Last year, we would act stupid, act retarded, do stupid things, and act immature little brat. I had a lot of fun and enjoyed the lamest thing ever. My friend was a huge influence in me … like, extremely huge and made a part of me. Unlike this year, everything is just too different. We don't laugh as much as we used to. We don't do as much crap as before. My friend doesn't want to act retarded, do stupid things, or act immature. Basically, my friend stops creating a fun & comfortable atmosphere. Everything is just dead. My friend knows that very well.

One time, we were passing by a place where we had a lot of memories there. My friend talked about how fun it was, the days, the time, and everything. Then, my friend says. "Remember the time when we did this and that with a couple of friends…. ". And "… now, we don't do it anymore. We were too immature back then. We're matured now". Then I say, "No, I'm not"

I was a bit annoyed by the statement which leads me to create this topic.

Now, I'm feeling a bit lost. It's like.... "Did I lost a friend who I once knew"

And by way, my friend always talked about "mature" now. It's getting so god dam f**king irritating. What the f**k is wrong with my god dam friend? We were pretty cool, and then … something has to get in the way.

I'm just lost. LOL. Is it natural that a friend becomes different and everything dies away?

[*suddenly she*]

I'm Ruth. And you are?

I don't really know what you'd do in your situation, but the least you could do is drop by sometimes and say hi and have a regular conversation as civilly as possible to catch up on what's going on in his life so he knows you care. A bit of contact is better than none at all.