friend who acts, different now ... Options

[demolished]

Recently, I had been feeling annoyed, irritated, and angered to a great friend of mine. Dude, there is something screwing up my mind. Last year, we would act stupid, act retarded, do stupid things, and act immature little brat. I had a lot of fun and enjoyed the lamest thing ever. My friend was a huge influence in me … like, extremely huge and made a part of me. Unlike this year, everything is just too different. We don't laugh as much as we used to. We don't do as much crap as before. My friend doesn't want to act retarded, do stupid things, or act immature. Basically, my friend stops creating a fun & comfortable atmosphere. Everything is just dead. My friend knows that very well.

One time, we were passing by a place where we had a lot of memories there. My friend talked about how fun it was, the days, the time, and everything. Then, my friend says. "Remember the time when we did this and that with a couple of friends…. ". And "… now, we don't do it anymore. We were too immature back then. We're matured now". Then I say, "No, I'm not"

I was a bit annoyed by the statement which leads me to create this topic.

Now, I'm feeling a bit lost. It's like.... "Did I lost a friend who I once knew"

And by way, my friend always talked about "mature" now. It's getting so god dam f**king irritating. What the f**k is wrong with my god dam friend? We were pretty cool, and then … something has to get in the way.

I'm just lost. LOL. Is it natural that a friend becomes different and everything dies away?

[*suddenly she*]

Wow, I can kind of relate to this, except I'm the one that's stopped goofing around.

I haven't totally stopped goofing around but it's just that it flat out annoys me that some people still haven't grown up yet. I doubt this is the same case as it is with you, but I have a close friend or at least ex-close friend that I used to do dumb stuff with all the time.

We were kind of like siblings, except a couple things happened over the summer and I figured it was time to cut the crap... Sometimes you just want to quit goofing around.

Except my friend didn't and therefore we're not close anymore.

It's not like I'm attempting to suck the air out of every room I walk into. He still talks to me about his problems and all because I've always been able to find a way for him to get out of it, and it's the same for a lot of other people I'm not close to anymore.

I guess it's natural...

[demolished]

your friend is growing up. it happens to people. you get more mature eventually too. =]

Psh. i can act mature anytime soon. I find immaturity to be fun than mature.

Wow, I can kind of relate to this, except I'm the one that's stopped goofing around.

I haven't totally stopped goofing around but it's just that it flat out annoys me that some people still haven't grown up yet. I doubt this is the same case as it is with you, but I have a close friend or at least ex-close friend that I used to do dumb stuff with all the time.

We were kind of like siblings, except a couple things happened over the summer and I figured it was time to cut the crap... Sometimes you just want to quit goofing around.

Except my friend didn't and therefore we're not close anymore.

It's not like I'm attempting to suck the air out of every room I walk into. He still talks to me about his problems and all because I've always been able to find a way for him to get out of it, and it's the same for a lot of other people I'm not close to anymore.

I guess it's natural...

It's kind of stupid. Why would a friend drop the crap and start being mature when all the fun is there? I really don't believe to be immature. I acted immature because my friend was acting immature before. High school is all about fitting into groups. But, really ... i know what's right from wrong but i still do the wrong things. Like, we would lie in the middle of the street in front of the cars being stupid, bark at people, shouting, dancing, stripping with the statue in front of the police camera, constantly jumping on the crosswalk, and etc. How should I say this...? I'm more mentally matured than physically? No clue.



In high school, when you tried to get into the people, our attitude changes to be compatible with the people. It takes times to asorb people's influences and the way they do things. Anyways, does it make a person less than themself ?