err friends with benefits?! Options

[dreaminofhim]

i don't mean to sound totally weird when i ask this - but okay. i have this guy friend who is really ... hott ?! lol yeah. and well anyways. he just graduated and i'm 2 years younger than him but we are both hugggge* flirts. and the last time he was over we were in the hot tub and it's not like we made out or anything but i was like giving him a massage. anywho. when we talk online and stuff we're both always saying goofy things like ohh i wanna see you naked and shizzle but half the time we're kidding around - yet sometimes we're serious. and well, i was just wondering - what should i do ? i mean, i know he just doesn't want a piece of ass and it's not like i'm attached but i have a feeling i'd start to really get attached if in fact we did do something . comprende ?!?!? basically i just wanna see how you guys think i should deal with this situation !! thanks a bunchesss!

[southern4life]

ahh.. friends with benefits.. aka makeout buddies. well heres my story.. well this guy i kno.. tyler.. he's like omg hot.. like the perfect guy for me right.. n we decided to do the 'friends with benefits' thing a while back.. so we did.. n it was gReAt.. but i got really attached.. and he didnt.. n it wasnt so great after that.

you just have to make sure both of you have the same idea of whats going on.. otherwise it's gonna get really weird. n it'll suck for you.. cuz girls usually get attached easier than guys.. so here we are secretely in love n all he wants is.. someone to mess around with.

so in my experience.. i say yeah its easier to have a makeout buddy than a boifriend.. cuz no one gets hurt if you do it right.. plus u get to do whatever you want. its a win-win situation.. but it usually doesnt work out right. so try to talk it over with him.. n see what he wants..

sry so long.. lol hope this helped?