Once upon a time, there was a boy and girl. Options

[fall3n_s0ul]

They knew each other before they even went to jr. high school. Somehow, the girl fell inlove with the boy. And secretly the boy loved her as well. But the stupid boy chose a different girl over her, and then broke her heart. Even after that, maybe they were never lovers, but they were great friends. He went to her house every day after school. Watched cartoons, went pizzarias, slept together on the same beds and leaned on each other when one of them were tired. They we almost lovers, but it never came to it. The boy always made her cry somehow, but then he always wiped away every tear she cried for her. The boy had noone by his side but the girl understud him better than anyone. They were always there for each other, whether on the phone or in each other's arms. That was 3years ago, now is now. The girl's feelings faded away but the boy's feelings grew stronger and stronger. They grew closer and closer but the girl only think of him has brothers and sisters. The boy couldn't bare seeing her with any other guy so the guy confessed his love to the girl and said he's sorry. The boy was so scared he would lose her forever. But things worked out, they were still best friends even though the girl knew the boy loves her. They continued to call each other everyday, but even so - the barely spends time with the boy or even sees him in school. Later, the girl fell for a guy. The boy hates his guts and hates the fact she loves him. The girl thinks he's being jealous but he tells her she deserves better. No matter how much the boy gets mad, she always finds a way to make him smile again. The boy is lost. what should the boy do?

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I'm going to answer you as if you're the boy.

The mean version:
It seems like you wasted all this time on a relationship that wasn't there... you assume way to much. How do you know that the girl ever thought of you as her lover? I think that you need to go on a field trip to reality so you can know how the world really works and won't be surprised when you get "f**ked in the ass".

The nice version:
It's alright, you're going to be ok. Just hang in there buddy. Go for a walk on the town and get your mind off things.

Reality
Look man, you are wasting your time and emotions on this one girl who got over you because you clearly chose another girl over her. You need to get rid of your feelings for you. If you can't get over your "more-than-a-friend" feelings for her you have to stop hanging out/talking with her as often as you do now. You need to let those feelings go before you can continue friendship with her or you're just going to be a jealous thorn in her side. Let go. You made a mistake, and you need to learn from it. Don't make that same mistake again.