How many of you have I offended?, :p Options

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I know I offend many people on cB. You might think I'm ignorant when I ask this question, but "Why are you so offended by what I say?" I guess I just don't unerstand, and instead of you giving me attitude I would like to make things right. I don't care what it takes. If you want to cuss me out and call me names then please, if that's what you need to do, do it. If that's what it takes for you to feel like you have avenged my "attitude" towards you, then so be it. I would to first understand you, and then I would like you to understand me. I'm sick of the lack of communication.

I personally believe that the main reason many of you hate me is due to a lack of communication on both my part those of you who don't not like me. I would like to make things better, and if any of you have a problem with me or my ideas I would like you to step forward instead of harboring bitterness towards me andd the people I associate with.

So, in order to take the first step in resolving this obvious conflict I would like to take the time to understand you're piont of view. I would like to ask.

Why do you dislike me?

Please do not post if you aren't willing to give me the same respect that I am willing to give you. I will listen to you and try and understand you, but before you post you must realize that I WILL REPLY. In the same way that I am taking my time to listen to your reply (whoever you may be) I expect you to respect me and listen to mine.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I just find you awfully annoying some times, because of your lack of.. how do I put it.. vision. You think you know everything (hypocritical of me to say, maybe, but still) and that bugs me.

[*Uronacid*]

I just find you awfully annoying some times, because of your lack of.. how do I put it.. vision. You think you know everything (hypocritical of me to say, maybe, but still) and that bugs me.

:p

People say this to me in real life. It's not that I think I know everything... it's more like I act very confident in what I believe to be true. I guess I don't talk when I don't believe strongly in something, I feel like it's not my place to say anything.

I do respect you though Angelina. You're opinionated, like me, but you're opinions aren't backed up by bullshit. Even though they may differ from mine, they still make sense (specially on controversial issues).

never offended me....... why the hell are you making this? there have been way more offensive people on cb, look at jason.

im sure ive offended people once or twice, but shit, i aint gonna make a topic about it. because im a wonderful person and that makes up for me calling black_heart kunta kente.

Well, it's glad to hear... I guess I feel as if I have personally offended a lot of people... >.< I really just want to make things right.

hm, i dont think you've ever offended me.
if you were seon ho, there'd be reasons.

Alright, let me tell you something about sean ho. I hated him once too, but when I IMed him he turned out to be a really nice guy. Just be honest with him. I swear, he'll treat you with respect of you don't come at him offensively.

You've never offended me, and I don't think badly of you. It's just that some of your posts I've seen could have been worded more respectfully and considerately. I understand that when you feel passionate about something you tend to type your thoughts without thinking of how they'll seem later on, so I guess that's something you could work on. Other than that you seem like an okay person.

I'll agree with you... >.> it is something I need to work on. I can say the same thing without being offensive. You're right.

I don't think I've ever been offended by you, your topic posts are REALLY long, and I just like....tell the truth, don't bother reading it. Sorry but yeah. You come across to me as opinionated and an okayish person who types a lot..:D

Well thanks. I know I'm opinionated... I need to work on writing things in a way that don't seem as opinionated. I'm probably not as opinionated in real life as I come across on cB.

I dont think you have ever offended me.However you have at times made me feel like you dont listen to me, or at times never have taken me serious.But thats just a vibe you have given me.

Do I dislike you? Nooooo

I'm sorry if I made you feel that way... I know that there are times when I just sign off or don't say anything when you IM me... It's my fault. It's not just you. Sometimes I will just sit on AIM and ignore every message that comes my way. Sorry about that... I know that I need to work on being a better listener in general, but it's probably even worse because I only talk to you online... >.<

Why is this even open? This topic is a member bashing/rule-breaking topic in the making. You're just asking people to say hateful things to you, so you can "feed off of it" like you said. Sure, theoretically you're not asking them to bash you or to get out of line...but Lord knows cB isn't mature enough to handle it. So instead of going through this whole process why not have people PM you? Or do you just want attention?

Well, it's been reopened, and it has been re-opened because I am actively/sincerely trying to rebuild my reputation with the community. I know you might feel like I'm trying to get people to say hateful things about me so that feed off it. Perhaps it's because I have antagonized people for fun in the past, but I swear this topic is not for that. I'm really just trying to work things out with people.

I agree with you, I think that often times cB isn't able to handle it, but (on the other hand) I think that if I don't treat this topic like a competition this thread will not turn into "WW3". I'm not having people PM me because I honestly don't know how many people I have offended or annoyed. I promise, although this may bring attention to me, it is not for that purpose at all.

Well, I have listened to your perception of me, and I'm going to share with you my perception of you. I do feel like you don't like me, and I wish you would talk to me and work things out instead of ignoring me and treating me like I'm worthless.